buzz=not completely drunk
and im (21)
2006-06-09 16:09:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends how relaxed you are, how big he is, what position your in, and of course how much of a "buzz" u have at the time.
2006-06-10 08:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjinx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would not advise you to get wasted as won't know what you are doing and things could happen that you later regret...
This includes first time use of condoms messing it up like drink driving or as sozzled not using them at all.
Likewise may pick the wrong guy or end up going off in a car full of dodgy scarey pissed aggressive guys and you REALLY don't want to do that.
Im a guy for can't relate to the first time ouch...
But do know the more relaxed (and lubricant (proper sex lubricant water based ALWAYS (oil makes tiny homes in rubber in seconds that all the nasties and baby making stuff can go though.). The better and less painful it is... Plus as said ita not much and over with then you want more.
Whats also better is if you don't try and do it all at once... bit like me chucking you off the end of a pier and saying swim...
Better to have a history of snogging, making out, pawing(ie feeling up) then feeling up all over. The top half only then getting naked (maybe strip poker) ideally with a boyfriend. (but no further) getting felt up all over. Ideally gett off anf getting the guy off by hand and mouth and him you...
And then having done levels 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8 and 9 then doing ten with that experience. Plus you will then be used to the guy seeing you and your bits so won't be so self concious, have a better idea how things work or feel. You will have some idea on foreplay and want to go further and know what you like too.
oh and have had practice (flovoured helps here) getting condoms on and off the guy after he's *** come and not getting any splashes or drips anywhere AND washing all the cream off your hands from said creamy willy and condom which still works and can get you pregnant Ie hitching a ride on fingers.
THEN after weeks/monthes etc of all that and having jolly good fun doing it.
You should be a lot more ready for the first time then you are too, not worrying about the ouchy bit either...
Far better then you turning out the lights, undressing lieing their like an inflatable sex doll and say do what you want to me...
My way you'll be all over him as you will know what you want and it will be better for both of you.
Plus you could also by this point make it more fun by playing some silly role play dress up game at the same time... ie cops and robbers where the robber must be thoughly strip searched, or doctors and nurses, cheerleader and jock or whatever you two think is a laugh... and the more fun the less your mind is on other ouchy stuff ...
Beats getting drunk
Hope that helps...
2006-06-09 22:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sex does hurt a little but it is an enjoyable pain
2006-06-09 16:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think sex should hurt more than a little ever
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-09 16:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wager its on account which you dont have lubrication down there since your innovations isnt "in the 2nd"...while whilst u at the instant are not below the effect of alcohol, you're greater into it and ur innovations is in it particularly than in l. a. l. a. land...greater lubrication
2016-12-08 19:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely although you might be a bit more relaxed than you would be normally. Wouldn't advocate getting drunk and losing it though!
2006-06-09 20:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by felicity_pink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol makes you relax and lose inhibitions...
Depending on what positions you are in and the size of equipment he has, it makes sex easier...
2006-06-09 22:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if its up the bum or not.......................
2006-06-09 16:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋