It isnt f****** fair that my life was f***** wrecked by the man that raped me....Why do i have to take meds ? Why do I have to suffer ? Why do I feel like running around screaming and yelling and tearing up things ? This isnt fair !! I want it to stop ! I want a miralce from God !!!! plz pray for me........I feel like Im cracking up....like I am chained to this past that follows me like a phriggin ghost......
2006-06-09 16:01:12 · 14 answers · asked by trinity_loves_neo1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
psalm 77
2006-06-09 16:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the power to change your life. Stop asking why and start living your life by surrendering all of your pain to God.
If you continue to duel over the past then the past never goes away.
Whatever happened is over,done....Jesus said not to worry about the past because is done or the future because it has not happened yet. Only concentrate on today. Only today is real.
You are NOT a victim anymore!!! You have the control to change your life by choosing God instead of pain.
2006-06-09 23:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by hmc121667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be much comfort at this point but God often turns our greatest difficulties into our most powerful ministries. It is difficult to see when you are in a trial but when you look back on it from your future you may see God's hand working in a much greater way than you ever imagined. At this point, draw near to God, He is the only real comforter that can handle a problem of that magnitude. Sorry that I can't be very much help but my prayers are with you.
2006-06-09 23:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by oldguy63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno if this can help. I've tried it my self and it does work, but sounds bazaar. It can get rid of some emotions really quickly. It reduced my fear of moldy food in 2 minutes a fear I had for 20 yrs. I know it's not the same thing but it might help. Its called Emotional Freedom Technique. These website explain it better. Have u had any other therapy or talked to someone about this? U can message me or IM me if u wanna talk or anything.
2006-06-09 23:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are always asking why bad things happen to good people?
in the bible they asked Jesus why a man was allowed to be born blind? was it because of sin in the man`s life, sin in his parents lives or what? Jesus answered and said that it wasn`t because of anyones sin, but so that the glory of God could be shown through that man`s life!
it could be that what happened to you might be used by the lord to minister to someone else going through the same situation by showing the other person the strength you can find by depending on the Lord to help you through this!
trust in the Lord with all your heart, fill your life with his presence, immerce yourself in his word, and understand that you`ve done nothing wrong. trust his word when it says in romans 8:28" ALL THINGS work for the GOOD of those who love God and are CALLED according to his purposes."
you could possibly be called to coucil others who have been raped and who better to do that than someone who has gone through it themselves? just know that people are praying for you, and God won`t allow more to be put on you than what you are able to bear with his help!
remember the ten finger prayer, which is phil. 4:13 " i can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me."
2006-06-10 00:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no fault in that if that happened without your consent. Allah the Almighty will reward you.
As well as this world is concerns, I would say there should be islamic laws enforced that ensure woman respect and dignity.
Woman respect and dignity is the most precious thing in islam but unfortunately we are distracked.
2006-06-10 01:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by A muslim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trinity love i am sorry for what has happened to you. the devil is so evil and he loves no one and cant never love. the person that did this to you WILL NEVER ESCAPE THE EYES OF GOD. JESUS will help you through everything. Me and my wife will and always keep you in prayer. GOD BLESS YOU and keep GOD first and he will have you trampling all your enemies. Dont hold a grudge against him. My wife went through what you went through and GOD blessed her to get through and put in her hert to forgive.It may seem hard to you right now but with GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE..
2006-06-09 23:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray and i mean pray hard,pray the rosary and always ask the lord for guidance ...
2006-06-09 23:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by eltivo0210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a rape victim wont tell anyone about the horrible experience exept her own family. are you really ____?
2006-06-10 09:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Sobekkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay calm at least he didn't impregnate you like one person who raped my cusin....
2006-06-09 23:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Butterfinger20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋