I met this guy named Keith. Please don't get me wrong, I am not young...I'm 28 and I really liked this guy. But this evening on our date, he tried to force me to have sex with him. He grabbed my arm and tried to hold me down...now I have a huge bruise on me. He said he was sorry for what he did and that he can't help but to want me so strongly. He is a very nice guy and he is usually a gentleman, but when we are alone, sometimes he pulls over on the side of a dark street and he'll try to pressure me to have sex, which I don't want to do. I can't decide if I should stay with him or leave him in fear that he may try to force himself on me again. He does have more pros than cons....but that still isn't an excuse...I just have really strong feelings for him.
2006-06-09 15:59:11 · 4 answers · asked by LadyLuv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a way of making me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, but then he'll make me feel like the lowest slut on the planet when he tries to justify his reasons as to why he would ever force me to do something I wasn't comfortable with...sorry for all the info, just very confused and sad.
2006-06-09 16:01:57 · update #1
His behavior is unacceptable. Run away as fast as you can. If he does this now, can you imagine what he will do later on? Please for your safety, don't see him anymore.
2006-06-09 16:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very much out of line. You can take it as a sort of sideways "compliment" that he thinks you're irresistable, but he's gotta keep himself under control, even if it means - yes "taking care of his own business" before he sees you. In the long run, there's going to be problems if he doesn't stop it with the porn (he has porn, right?) as well as other vices. Usually one follows the other. Just remember, girls DO do things too, that can make a man react, so be aware of how you dress, tease and act. But, he's gotta get himself really, really straightened out otherwise there will be big trouble in the future.
2006-06-09 23:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be you should really think about not seeing him anymore. If this is how he treats you now then it could possibly get a lot worse. NO means NO!!!
2006-06-09 23:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by dungeonvixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him alone. once he gets away with anything bad it will and i mean it will continue. stop it now if you dont it will get worse. dont let anyone justify why you or they should have sex if you dont want to. if you continue to have this relationship then just think what he will expect then. and if you continue the relationship and dont have sex he mite leave you.
2006-06-09 23:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋