i have this friend,he treats me like a little sis but i have feelings for him,he doesnt like me as a "g/f" because when ever we chat,he talks about my enemy lets call her "shannen"
how do i tell him that?after this year he wouldnt be taking clasess at my school anymore
please help me,i feel so terible being 2nd best always
2006-06-09 15:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be strong...my friend once told me that,he doesnt know i have feelings for him, i think it sucks,feels like i am gonna breakdown!i am only his bestest friend...it hurts for me to hear him say"you know shannen is really beautiful i am gonna ask her out"
it hurts so much i mean REALLY HURTS
hmm but if it doesnt work out i oughta forget and stay away from him ryt?i mean i am to good for him anyway!!
2006-06-09 17:55:44 · update #1
Develop more friendships. Any time you are worried about being second best, whether it is a BF or a BFF, you jeopardize the friendship because you become jealous and possessive. You do this because that one friend is tied to so many feelings.
If you have a few more friends, you won't have as much pressure to be 'best' with any, and you will be able to evaluate a guy you like more easily. After all, hooking up with him could ruin the friendship!
2006-06-20 17:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by RogerKW 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nobody treat everyone fairly.. Someone will be love more, someone no need to talk but he/she being likes by everyone. Someone don't even't talk and everyone want to beat him out of hell...This is life. Never fair but what you can do it, do what you think is the best for you so you won't regret in the future.
Since you have in obedience to the truth purified your souls for a sincere love [phileo] of the brethren, fervently love [agape] one another from the heart, (1 Peter 1:22)
2006-06-09 23:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by kevinkira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answered your own question. he likes you as a friend but as nothing more. get over it and if you really can't then maybe stay away from him for a while even though it will be really hard its better than the pain you must feel everytime you look at him and know he doesn't like you as a g/f. be strong !!! your a woman after all you can do anything!!!!
good luck.
2006-06-09 23:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by mummapink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋