If your dating a girl, and she is a christian and wants to lose her virginity when she is married, would you wait to have sex with her when you both are maried to each other? or would you dump her and get an new girlfriend to have sex with immediatly?
2006-06-09 15:30:49 · 23 answers · asked by I ♥ Kurt Cobain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait on my love. I think that it is a wonderful thing that she waits to be married to raise a loving family and give it the best chance in the world.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-09 15:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately there is no easy answer. I mean I could tell you if the guy loves you and respects you he will stay with you and wait as well. But I think the social structure today defines relationships a bit different. [I do not want to give you the idea that sex rules over religious believes] Just keep in mind the institution of marriage is in our society not valued anymore... look at the divorce rates etc.
I think the best thing to do is to follow your heart, and if it says to you that you should wait until you are married then do that. I am sure there is a person out there that is your soul mate and will have the same ideas about sex before marriage.
2006-06-09 22:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a practicing christian, she'll wait. In the bible says no sex till you are married.
I wouldn't dump her cause of her christian background, that's retarded. I would respect what she said, though.
probably go take a cold shower, and punch the clown a bit.
dirty birdie that comment you made abiut her being a whore, was retarded, Because she wants to wait before she's married before she has sex doesn't mean she's a whore, means she has values and morales, probably unlike what you have.
2006-06-09 22:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Skud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a shallow guy you would get a new girl immediately.
I had a lot of frivolous sex when I was younger. When I finallymet someone whom I loved and respected- I did not have sex until the time was right- we are still together after many years and neither of us regret the wait!
2006-06-09 22:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship, and if I can see it actually getting to the marriage stage. If not then it may just be an exercise in futility. I have personally been in this situation and dated a girl for about 2 years, and we ended it for completely unrelated issues. Its possible!
2006-06-09 22:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by George_Wolfe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait, no questions asked. People need to have more respect for other people's values, guys especially seem to have a hard time with that for some reason. But some girls do too!
2006-06-09 22:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by TanneDelight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking about yourself, Brandy? Just curious. I guess it's really hard for many guys especially if all they care about is getting laid as much as possible. I have never been is such a situaiton so I don't know. I think I would still date the girl--who knows how we end up, right?
2006-06-09 22:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Paul F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting till marriage is the best choice. If the love is true, this will not be a barrier but will be a pleasure to anticipate.. (Known as anticipatience).
2006-06-09 22:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in love with her, and I planned to marry her, I would wait. I would say that it would be very, very much worth the wait.
2006-06-09 22:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i am sure that she's the one I want to spend my life with, then I'll agree. When in love, we cannot say no to things that matters most to our partner. Because if I dump her, then its not true love and more of lust and pleasure if i insist of doing it. Besides, who wouldnt want to be the "first man" to the one you dearly love. That would be an added bonus! :-D
2006-06-09 22:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋