Why do GUYS say I LOVE YOU when they don't even mean it??

Answer 1

because all they want is to "hit it and split it"

Answer 2

That is the monoply of finding "true love". You should ask yourself, "What kind of guy am i looking for?". Pay attention to your boyfriend, and if you do, you should get an idea if he really loves you or not. Also, do not force him to say those words, or leave him nothing else to say just so he is not in hot water. There are alot of guys that just want sex. But i assure you, there is some guys out there that are honest and real. Good luck!

Answer 3

Becuase many guys do not feel they need love. Women think with both sides of their brain. (A fact often bragged about, as if it puts women at a higher state of thinking.) What this does is mixes logic with emotion, which doesn't work. Guys usually say I love you and lie only when they want sex. If a guy says he loves you regardless of sex, he means it, but this is usually over a long period of building a relationship. Most guys say it because their logical side is saying "I need to perform the actions of reproduction because it is pleasureable, but this woman wants to feel important, so I will lie and make her feel good while I get what I want." It sucks doesn't it? Men. We make me sick sometimes.

Answer 4

Many times because they:
Think its what you want to hear
Its a password to get what they want ie sex
They think its an expected part of a relationship
Most younger (and many older) guys dont have a clue what love means. Love takes time and effort. Dont worry about words, action speaks much louder.

Answer 5

men do not hold the same ideals about what those words mean. To them they are magic to get into someone's bed, they do not think in the terms that woman do. There are many men that are basically scum and will say or do anything, there are also men that are desperate to sleep with you and there are men they think they care for you but its not always on the same level we are or need.

Answer 6

I can turn this around to... why do gals fall for guys that say I LOVE YOU when they've only been out with the guy for no more than 4 weeks.

Answer 7

its a easy phrase..some people just don't care about the meaning of it. Females do the exact same thing. It's up to you to believe that person, don't question it though, if he's an asshole..move on

Answer 8

Yes alot do.Just to get as much sex out of you as they can.Some can mean it but most lie.You must becareful when a guy tells you he loves you.Don't beleave them tell he give you a good reasion to.

Answer 9

love is a difficult thing to define. sometimes people think they are in love and their feelings just turn out to be lust, fondness, or possessiveness. guys can be easily pressured into telling girls they love them before they are certain. their unfamiliarity with their feelings spurs us to sometimes "jump the gun"
as hurt-full as it can be its not always intentual.men make mistakes. sometimes we think were in love and we want to be in love so we say were in love but, sadly, sometimes were not.

Answer 10

You do? (are you a guy?), well i dont. There's some I klnow who does that to hit on the girls, which immediately falls head over heels to them upon hearing it. Sort of using "it" as a magic word to make girls spellbound and fall to their....Well, not all do that though. :-D

Answer 11

this guy who i know for 5 years who loves me more then anything more then his life so much even though i said i love him couldnt admit he loves me much less he cares for me until one day he was really drunk talking to me over phone at 2 am is when he said something similar to loving me caring and basically admitting to it.