ok well i have a bf who i have been going out for years well we have our fights every now n then. well one time we broke up n i really thought it was over well me n someone else (a friend of mine) got pretty close well it ended on getting past the friendshiip level. well he wanted us to have s*x but i didnt want to cuz ma longterm bf was my first n thats the only one i want to do that with. well ever since then me n my bf got back together n i told him everything n he hates my friend n doesnt want me nowhere near him. well my friend keeps telling me to mess around with him but i keep telling him NO cuz i go with ma boy n i dont want to cheat on him well 2 make a long story short he still wants me to cheat on my boy till this day n even tries to touch me. i tell him off but he doesnt bak off what should i do plus he has a gf rite now which makes things worse. i just want to be friends but he doesnt seem to understand n it even affecting me n ma bf relationship. HELP what can i do?
2006-06-09 14:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by 805 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah n we work together n my boy wants me to quit bcuz of him.should I? but i love my job. help
2006-06-09 14:57:16 · update #1
If your friend cant respect you than he isnt your friend. Tell him to get lost. As for your job if he pushes it there its called sexual harassment. Report it
2006-06-09 15:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok--- I am with your b/f on this one. He doesnt want you around your friend and I wouldnt blamehim--seems how he is touching you and trying to get together even though you are both commited. Tell the guy to back off, or the friendship is over. A friend should respect that. I cant understand why you want to be friends with him---he is willing to cheat on his g/f and has no respect for you or your boyfriend. Sorry--- your boyfriend is right. He isnt a true friend.
2006-06-09 22:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by mama2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't ruin your life just because your friend is horny. If you want to, you can file harassment charges. But that would most likely cost you your friendship.
If I were you, I'd take a picture of myself and my boyfriend hugging or kissing or at a celebration and the next time my friend touched me, I'd turn around, tell him how much I love my boyfriend, hand him the picture and walk away. If that doesn't send him the message, I dunno what will.
As for your boyfriend, it's so sweet that he's trying to take care of you. Acknowledge that. Tell him you're grateful for his care and consideration, but you don't want to quit your job and you won't put up with being intimidated. You sound like a strong woman. Show it. Good luck.
2006-06-09 22:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Yukina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend that if he values your friendship then he should stop trying to cause drama. And if you really like your job, dont leave it. Just tell your guy friend to back off. And if he doesnt, then i would say find a next job.
2006-06-09 22:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would tell your bf and if your bf didn't do any thing then tell your perents or tell your other friends to help u stay away for him well if u still want to b friends with this guy then tell him there will never be a chance for him to have s*x with u
2006-06-09 22:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Brian G. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a very good friend there then, but i don't really think u should stop working there cuz of 1 person. tell ur friend how u honestly feel, and that if he can't respect ur feelings then u can no longer b friends.
2006-06-09 22:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAT HIS *** im tellin u if he touches u again beat tha **** out of him do this for me becuz i have this problem every day a school.
2006-06-09 22:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Shakita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you are keeping your bf and that if he does not leave you alone, you will tell your boss. If he is your boss, sue him for sexual harrasment. AND DO IT.
2006-06-09 22:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by wldaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay someone to take care of him
u should get my cousin bebe hell do it for 50 bucks
2006-06-09 22:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋