my boyfriend takes me fishing and stuff but everytime other people are with us and he comes over every night but still other people are with him...but he never calls... why?
2006-06-09 14:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by littlebitoliz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys are taught, usually by those "interesting characters" in the seduction community, that it is better to leave the girl hanging, to make her come to you. Perhaps he prescribes to the same theory.
It's kinda like battle tactics, there is great advantage when somebody is playing on your turf. You hold the cards. This could be the way he feels most comfortable. Have you ever asked him to call you? "Hey Mr, it's your turn to give me a call!" That way you're inviting him to call you and he may not see it as "crawling" to you giving away his so-called power.
If he still wont call you. Then you have to wonder what the deal is. He could just be phone shy. But you know your boyfriend better than we do. Trust in your feelings.
Best Wishes to you.
2006-06-09 14:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sith Puppy 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
well he might think that he has spent enough time with you and he need time at night to rest or do something else. you might have a lot of time on your hand and not knowing what you should do. that is why you want him calling you are the time. find a movie series you like or a book to read or a part time job.
2006-06-09 14:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for a man to express his feelings on the phone when talking to his g/f. What I am trying to say is..he likes you so much he gets nervous on the phone so he would rather talk in person.
2006-06-09 14:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not know what to say over the phone. it is most likely easier to talk to u in person. if he said i love u u have not a thing to worry about
2006-06-09 14:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by hot thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions should speak louder then words since man or rather my man is the same way but i know he loves me by his actions not words
2006-06-09 14:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about it, and see if he feels the same as u do. if he does then tell him you'd like some time alone with him. don't let anyone use u grl, know that u deserve better.
2006-06-09 14:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't in to you as much as you hoped. Sorry, but from what your saying, it looks like you are being taken for granted.
2006-06-09 14:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt like talking on the phone?
2006-06-09 14:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don't got no phone!!!
2006-06-09 14:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by *~dazzling.black~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋