i get jealous alot this year...but mostly about materials....well it is beacuse i want something but i cant get it...and that just bulilds up and it made jealouy...im not jealous about looks or anything...its just material..i wont stop being saticefied with the things i have...i got bored of them.and anger was madw last year...you see...my friends forget about me when they give out stuff...on holidays ...birthdays...or special events...but i never for got about them...but they did...so anger came...i am poor and motherless.i keep wanting to have something...but i dont know what....something is missing from me...it isnt material...my brain is phycolis...when im mad i do curel things to poeple....like say there weaknesses..and violence....when i get hurt...well..i dont have hurt...i only have hate ,anger and jealousy.
i think my friends are bitches and i love my parents just only beacuse they are parents...."parent"..only the word is keeping it up..i hate the just"dad"..what do i do?!
2006-06-09 14:42:17 · 5 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i think it because you dont have your mom...us girls need a mom for more reasons than you can imagine..but sometimes when im hurt it dont show im just really mean to people i love for no reason..but it will all be ok try to find someone to talk to about your feelings i know its hard because people dont want to listen or they think your totally mental ..but its alright..hell im here if you need a friend..ok ..hope all is well
2006-06-09 14:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You probably aren't jealous, you're most likely envious. One thing you might want to do is seek attention from possibly a boyfriend or really close friend. Also, you need to use the energy you get from being angry and hateful to give a positive spin to things... for example: Art. Take some of the energy you have, and make something.. or do something with it that doesn't hurt people or you. You're not just mean, but it seems that you might be hurting and not realizing how much you are missing the attention that you seem to be seeking so valiantly. That would explain why material wealth means nothing to you. I wish you only the best.
Aloha,
David
2006-06-09 21:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have said it right in the paragraph. i am poor and motherless. i keep wanting to have something. You think maybe you want your Mom? something is missing from me...it isn't material...I think you really need to talk to a counselor to help you through this. You are angry with the world. If you don't want to feel like this for the rest of your life, get help now.
2006-06-09 23:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to understand why you are so angry. This is a very honest admission from you. I hear you calling and begging for help. You need to talk about your problems with, if you can, as calmly and intelligently as you can, with your parents. It sounds as though you may be a foster child and you have reason to be angry if that's the case. That your "friends" don't give you presents shows that they are not your friends and this another reason for so much of your anger. You feel alone and unliked, as well as unloved. My advice, if you're in school, is to go to the counselors and make them listen to your problems. You'll have to be honest with them and work hard to get rid of the anger you feel so strongly. And, by all means, you should talk with your parents, if it is possible. You need to keep these conversations as calm and even as possible. You need to search yourself for the reasons for your feelings and you need o be honest with yourself and express yourself honestly to the people you seek help from or you won't get the help you need. And you need to realize that gifts are only given to people who earn them.
2006-06-09 21:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have no mind.
2006-06-09 21:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by J-C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋