My girlfriend loves me and her old boyfriend she wants to be with us both can that be possible for a woman to have 2 boyfriends?
2006-06-09 14:38:55 · 27 answers · asked by J-MAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to choose who to be with.
2006-06-09 14:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Yo gurl Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not fair on you or the other guy if she has two boyfriends. Remember, it's her old boyfriend. If he dumped her and loves her, then he missed his chance. If she dumped him, then why does she want to get back with him? She loves u and u love her and u r already boyfriend and girlfriend. What more does that girl want?
2006-06-09 23:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love her but she is being VERY selfish. If she decides to be with you both she doesn't truly love either of you - only herself. What would you think of a guy in the same situation? Its no different.
You are being very mature and understanding but it seems like she isn't. These things never work - only bring pain to all three involved. You deserve better. Good luck dude!
2006-06-09 14:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can, but can you live with it????
first this is what you do if you want her for yourself.
find things that only you two can do
they all her time away.
if you need, plan a camping trip with her and your friend, but no ex-boyfriend. there you take her phone and accidently leaves it at home. so if she need to call home it will be through your phone. and she ask her friends, then you will know about it and during the camping everyone will know. so she will feel guilty.
plan for a 5 day trip to Disyenlands if you can. just get her a way from that guy. and you will be find.
2006-06-09 14:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight man good man fight for her love. You've got to be better than him at love making for sure. To steal your heart she would have had to be good at cooking - the way to a man's heart. For you to steal hers you need to learn the language of romance. Ok ok its all B.S.
She has to make a choice simple. There are other fish in the sea. Cliche but true. If sh eloves both of you then this will require big balls on your part to ignore that so step...
2006-06-09 14:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by moved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she shouldnt have 2 boyfriends - and unless you want to keep having to share her - you better tell her to pick 1 of ya - or else dont give her a choice just leave her!
2006-06-09 14:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monogamy is so crude in its ability to understand this situation and language like cheating and deceit is simply inappropriate when the people involved are being open and honest about how they feel.
Find out about polyamory (literally, loving many) and consider whether its concepts are helpful to you in understanding your situation,
2006-06-09 15:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to be thinking of yourself. you need self confidence. you shouldn't even be asking yourself this question. you should be leaving this relationship alone because it is and will lead to hurt, lies,deception, and equivocation. it isn't possible for her to be in love with 2 guys. what she is doing to the both of you is selfish,uncompromising,and just plain hurtful. you honestly need to leave her alone. get yourself a backbone and tell her to choose matter of fact don't put yourself through that situation because if she has to choose she doesn't love you. good luck and Good bless!!
2006-06-09 14:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 10:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no maybe its just lust get ver her if she really loved u she would want u and only u she cant fill in the spaces ur missing with another guy well unlesss u let her but dont be dum
2006-06-09 14:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not possible, stay away from someone who isn't over her ex, I just found out the hard way that it never works out for you.
2006-06-09 14:40:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋