i am kinda dateing someone right now but i dont think that it is takeing of to well. the guy is 16 and im 15 but i am goin to be a sophmore and he is goin to be a senior. and he only live about 60 miles from me.
but i was resently at a ffa convention and met this guy who is really hot and if really nice and i like him alot, and he is my age. but he live on the other side of the state. but i think that we have a better conection then me and the 16 year old.
what do you think i should do?
plz help i am so confused.
2006-06-09 14:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude im in north dakota i can drive and so can he and we both have cars.
2006-06-09 14:48:25 · update #1
Ugh! DON"T DATE BOTH!...girls today...sheesh.
OK, speaking from experience, relationships at such a young age are bound to fall through the cracks. I would love to convince you to forget about both of them and focus on your school work, but seeing as how I would have never taken that advice at your age I will tell you to follow your heart. If you don't feel a connection with the 16 year old, then tell him so and pursue the boy you met at the convention. Just be aware that long distance relationships are just as hard as young relationships and mixing the two is, in my book, relationship suicide.
I wish you the best and I hope you can look past all this heart sore to see that there are much bigger and more important things for your future and so you should not put to much time and energy into casual relationships, whether or not they feel casual to you or not.
2006-06-09 14:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think about what you REALLY want more. Both guys are obviously great if you've become attracted to both, but do you want a long distance relationship, cause no matter how close you think these two guys are, it's still a big gap. What you might want to do is be friends with these guys and hopefully when you've figured out your feelings and you're old enough to do something about them, you'll know who to be with.
2006-06-09 14:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just date both??
What's the problem?
With the distance between them, there's little chance they'll find out....
Hang out with the 16 year old somedays, and hang out with the other some other days...
No need to decide now... Test the water and see how things go with both of them.
2006-06-09 14:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the 16 year old, if you're thinking about someone else it won't work. I'm sorry to say but it probably won't work with the other guy either, if neither of you can drive, how will you see him?
2006-06-09 14:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your heart. If you think you and this other guy can make it work with you living so far apart then more power to you. But as far as the 16 year old you don''t want to see anymore, just be honest with him.
2006-06-09 14:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by vgibson81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young to be dating you need to have your head and this books what the world your going to be to with a boyfriend at the age of 15 miss lady
2006-06-09 14:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by lil_jelly2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look who do u think is more like u? u might like some one who is on the other side a the state but who will u get to see more. if u don't get to see someone that much it makes the realtion ship go bad.
2006-06-09 14:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by hot thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should compare both and see who has the edge. If u have no intention of continuing a relationship at least let one of the guys know before starting a new one....
2006-06-09 14:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should stick it out with the one closer and when are you ever going to see this other guy that lives far away
so stay with the guy that have now and if it really doesn't work out then you have this other guy to go to
your friend
blue butterfly
2006-06-09 14:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever makes you happy and if you don't think its with the guy your with then go with the other just be honest with the other guy that its not working out with him so GOOD LUCK BABY!!!
2006-06-09 14:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋