how do i tell if shes really enjoying sex?

Question

when me and my girlfriend are having sex how do i tell if she really enjoying it or just makeing sounds to get me to finsih

Answer 1

always have sex when you guys are happy best at night when she is feeling your warmth. the look on her face when you create the mood

Answer 2

Actually, you really can't. Women are good at faking it, and guys never know, including faking vaginal contractions. But, you can read a book to get the conversations going: "For You Both" by Lonnie Barbach. She is the foremost sex therapist in the country. Read it together. Sex is best when both people are open and not threatened. You'll learn alot, sir. Cheap in paperback at Amazon.com. And she has written other stuff too to make your love making even better. Sex therapists all over the country use her work. There is lots of trash out there written by people who know nothing. This is a great book..... Good luck

Answer 3

If she is asking for it next time there is a good chance that she enjoys it. Pay attention sometime to see if you can feel a very nice sort of pulsing, maybe .8 seconds apart. Thats a sure sign. Its best when both people are getting what they want. Difficult to fake.

Answer 4

well first of all when shes all up on you and doing some of da "work" then she is enjoying it. but if shes just lay down or whateva the position n just moaning n not doing anything to u then she is prob just not so into it as you at that time. trust me a girl sometimes does just make sounds for you to finish so its normal but its not all da time esp whenever we da ones who start the excitement off then u kno we not faking. dont let it get to u just enjoy it!

Answer 5

Ask her sometime. If your both adults, you should be able to communicate what your feeling wether it be in bed or just emotionally. The best sex you can ever have is when you both communicate what you want from eachother and give it a try. That way you both win.

Answer 6

If she is humping the hell out of you... You should be able to tell if she is really into it.

An orgasm will make her face flush a bit and you will notice her clit is swollen. She will get extremely wet.

She is probably just making sounds to finish.

Answer 7

expressions and contraction of the muscles she has down there is a pretty good indication and of course I guess if she is wanting you to pull yours out and she rubs her clit wildly and shoots all over the place...there is no such thing as a bad piece just some are better than others...and oh for those of you guys who are out there reading this with that 3 inch killer in your pants well, what can I say? When she says 'who do you aim to please with that?!' Say me.....

Answer 8

If she is enjoying it she becomes wet and her clitoris becomes swollen and moistened.She makes certain noise and also the eye becomes brightened and sleepy.Try using the finger if she ignores it then I dont think she is enjoying it.She must respond to whatever you do

Answer 9

I will make this quick since most men like it like that....

If after foreplay, she isn't wet then you are not pleasing her, she is making the noise to please you... If you find her weak spot, that will really get her a going. One more thing..if she has a full blown org@sm, the bed will be wet as if she had pissed on the sheets. ;)

Answer 10

she will move, moan, kiss you.
she will feel hot.
she will get wet, and it will tighten when she c*ms.
she will quiver, sweat.
if you think she just wants you to finish...then she is not enjoying it. if she was enjoying it...she would do what ever she could to extend the session. slow it down...

Answer 11

Well, I'm not a guy........but when the female get's excited her vagina tightens, esp. during the big O. So if she feels the same through-out...her body isn't responding to you.

Oh, and there's the shaking and all that. ;-)