I sent email to my boy friend who is living far away to ask about his explaination for his bad attitudes in our relation. Then I proposed a friendship between us if he can't give proper explainations.
In his reply, he appologized and explained for all things he did and said that he has met one girl. (However, via a friend, I am sure that she is just a girl "for fun" of him). Then he asked me :" but we can be friends OR?"
Besides, i also know that his business is becoming very worse but he didn't tell me about it.
What does he mean from all his explainations and OR? What should I do? I love him and don't want to lose him.
2006-06-09 14:23:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on girl . Have some dignity.
2006-06-09 14:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust yourself. this is not math. so it is not 1+1=2. because some girl loves a guy even if he is doing drugs or oweing money. so you have to decide is this guy for you and do you see a future with him. if so, stay with him. if not, end the relationship not because otherwise you will have a soft heart and keep giving him chances and it will be another 3 years. so run.
2006-06-09 21:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dint loose him. He lost you. Drop him girl. You are worth more than that. Let go of him, let him realize what a mistake he has done. Find someone man-enough. Obviously this guy isn't.
Men like him are like PIGS sentenced to the sloughter house. They just want sex and they will never never never change.
Girl find a prince. Thats what every one of us deserves.
2006-06-09 21:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have lost him...what part of his letter didn't you read or understand? He is gone on to greener pastures. You need to get out more and meet new people.
2006-06-09 21:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I think he doesn't really care because what's the difference with being friends and being boyfriend if you don't really see him?
2006-06-09 21:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god. he's a jerk to hook up w/ another girl w/ out ending it w/ you. call him and ask him what's going on. When you make sure he's w/ the *****, just assume he never even existed.
2006-06-09 21:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by soosool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's being completely truthful to you...and why should you want anything less? Don't settle for loser men, because then they come and find me! lol. : P
2006-06-09 21:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gone girl.... You have to move on....
I think the OR means "OR friends with benefits"
????
Who knows...
At this point, it's pointless...
2006-06-09 21:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much chaos - you're scaring him off. Just be cool.
2006-06-09 21:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kenny ♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOSE HIM. Jeez, where is your self esteem??? Another one will come along in five minutes!
2006-06-09 21:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋