I m going out with this guy and he is great but before him i liked this other guy who is one of my best friends, and i finally figured out that he liked me. I might still have feelings for him. but i know i have feelings for the guy i m going out with i dont know who to choose.
2006-06-09 13:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by Faye Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
toss a coin and then see if the answer feels right --- if it doesnt than choose the other option
make a choice and move on
2006-06-09 13:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I am kinda in da same boat as you... I was friends w/ this guy for 5 yrs now (cept we didn't talk for 1 yr... dunno why...) & he gave me a call one day. We've been talking for the past mo everyday for 2 or 3 hrs or 2 or 3x/day. Cept I wanna break up w/ my bf. I like the friend but don't know bout going out w/ him... Don't wanna go out w/ my bf anymore tho... (Check out my Qs to see what I'm talking bout...)
As for your A, stay w/ your current bf. If there is nothing bad going on b/w you 2 then why should you leave ? Leave the rel if you don't deserve to be treated the way you're being treated. BUT, it's also not a good idea to go out w/ your friend...@ least not right away. Wait til you're ready to date again. Cuz then you'll know that he's not on the rebound, which isn't fair to the guy... Good luck !!!
2006-06-09 21:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Being hetero, I'm not very good with these kinds of situations, but here goes. You got the guy on one side and he's got his "one thing" and you've got another guy on the other side and he also has his "one thing", and there you are with two hands, two guys, and "two things". Well, I'm not a math whiz, but unless one of them is a two hander, I think all three of you can be happy. Unless you're a taker and not a giver. Then you do the hokey-pokey and turn yourself about (that's what it's all about).
2006-06-09 21:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the great guy you've been going out with. Keep the other guy on friendly terms only--to go out with him, could mean the end of your friendship.
2006-06-09 21:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before you act on your feelings for your friend be kind to your boyfriend and break-up.
2006-06-09 21:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by wishorstish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one do you like better write down stuff that you like about them and dont like about them
2006-06-09 21:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by shyshy12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u have more feelings for? who treats u better?
2006-06-09 21:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by anime_manga_geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋