Ok so I'm the type of person that even though I try really hard not to, I take everything to heart. Well I have started noticed my b/f and I are getting into a lot of fights over miss communication (we have tried everything to get better with that, but nothing seems to work), and me getting upset over "stupid things", but when he says things and he is not kidding, sometimes I just take it straight to heart, its really stupid I know, but I was going to see if anyone had advice or was in kinda the same situation?!? Plz be nice with the answers, thank you very much for your time reading this and answering!!
2006-06-09 13:52:53 · 3 answers · asked by waterchick1822 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting into fights over little unimportant things is usually a sign of bigger issues. Just remember most relationships are made to end. If it's "over" don't fight it.
2006-06-09 13:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny ♣ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how long has it been? Let's start out with the real issue, and assume it is true: you guys are right for eachother, and at least moderate term goals are similar.
That said, relationships have phases, you have either identified real problems at the core: moral conflicts, dishonesty, money problems, denial/delusion over real facts/events. OR one or both of you has got a substance abuse problem. OR you cannot tolerate each other anymore in a battle over control.
Two alpha personalities can be difficult, even if destiny was meant to be. Two submissive personalities, usually leads to one filling the position by default... but unrefined, usually a mess.
2006-06-16 10:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by dockyortho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just growing apart, and are not really ment for each other.For me this is a sign that my relationships are on the way out.Sorry!.Good Luck
2006-06-09 20:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by lavito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋