I'm still in school, a couple weeks ago I started dating a guy I really like. Everyone in our class was saying we should kiss, but I didn't feel comfortable and I didn't think it would make our first kiss at all romantic for 25 people to be watching. I hugged him and he said it was fine and that we could just make out when we go to a movie. Will he still love me? or do you think he's gonna dump me?
2006-06-09 13:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by hughrooloo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will he still LOVE you?? What makes you think any of this is "love"? I'm sure not kissing him in front of 25 people won't make him dump you.... If he does, forget him...
2006-06-09 13:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it you are still young. Well the school i went to there were heaps of people doing the same thing to almost every couple, at that age guys don't really have a long relationship on their mind, nor should they really care if you kiss them or not. They are just young and trying new things, you need to be able to have fun but if you don't feel comfortable kissing him around 25 people than don't, you will get plenty of guys coming after you in the coming years so don't stress. At my age(18) and when i was younger guys tend to only want to kiss alone anyway. He sounds like he would want to kiss you in private if he said what he said about at the movies. All the best and good luck!
2006-06-09 20:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by laura_88joh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know if he does -he isnt worth it. Most men just want sex,sex,sex - and if thats not what ur ready for make it strong - stand firm against him. He hasnt pushed u into anything yet so im sure it will all b ok. And hey just use the method - u cant dump me coz im dumping u!
Dont cry over things that dont matter - if he really loves u he wont do anything like that
K babe - good luck
2006-06-09 20:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by bloopergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are completely right i would not be romantic kissing in front of 25 other people he probably feels the same way. i dont think hes gonna dump you for wanting you first kiss to be special
2006-06-09 20:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality Check - He doesn't love you, you are at school and this stage its just lust. But good news, he won't dump you yet... as long as you make out with him at the movies so don't let him down. Boys move on quickly from girls that are holding out so get kissing.
What am I saying - Study hard, Boys can wait!! ha ha!!
2006-06-09 20:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Keira 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dating a couple of weeks and he loves you? I don't
think you should worry about anything right now except the excitement of getting to know each other and having fun. Love
comes later. And you are right about kissing. I like romantic kisses just between me & my honey!!
2006-06-09 20:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. if he is a good bf, he will still love u
2. if he is a bad bf, he will dump u
Both ways u win. If he dumps u, he was not worth dating
If he still loves u, well u still get to go out with someone u really like
2006-06-09 20:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anna787 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how old you are. If you really like him then you should just kiss him. It wont hurt you or anything. Just dont let him force you. Cause if he does force you then he might keep forcing you to do things. Stuff that you dont want to do.
2006-06-09 20:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by joshkeepsitreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just started dating, it's not love yet anyway, but if he doesn't want to be with you after you wouldn't kiss him, then he isn't worth your time.
2006-06-09 20:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by mizbehavingirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he leaves you then you dont need to be with that kind of guy anyways. My guess is that since he said it was cool he wont leave you...unless you left out some details. But good luck with your relationship.
2006-06-09 20:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Aztlan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋