ive had sex with a couple of girls so far in my life. im 19 and im just realizing that girls are gross. i mean guys are gross too. but everytime i think about a chick id like to get to know better, i just imagine what else shes done you know? i just get grossed out about slutty chicks and stuff is that weird?
2006-06-09 13:07:39 · 25 answers · asked by jerse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its the alpha male hormone thingy. In the world of the living plant, animal, bacteria virus and anything living, reproduction is important to ensure the survival of the species (this is the meaning of life for those searching it or r just curious about it!). which is why we feel good about sex, getting horny etc, but then we want women only to be taken by us and us only. I bet you don't feel disgusting about where you been n with who but you feel disgusted about where the girls been. We gota fight this urge we live in a wholly different society. don't let these kinda thoughts bug ya cause the outcome will mean you getting depressed or hurting those around ya. possessiveness is something unfortunately one hormone DNA thingy that has not phased out of the human species despite us being so developed compared to every other species. I too feel the same way recently due to some personal experiences and think really low of all women, fractionally because of the same reasons you explained. but if i let this run my life I'll never get with anyone and my life's gna be messed up. so what i do is remind myself to be broad minded and if I'm gna worry, i need to worry about real problems, why take on the extra hassle because of feelings caused by hormone things. get on with and enjoy life.
However there is one thing. I myself am a good judge of character and I am usually correct and yes if you see a girl in that manner you explain slutty, up for it etc chances are shes been around and is slutty. they dont have no self respect and readily makes her self available you dont want to know her unless you mutually agree to have a one nighter (which i dont think is your thing by the sound of it) and your right about guys as well its the same thing although in a politicaly and social aspect its not, the male being seen as the dominant gender in most speceis makes it seem ok for guys to do and they would not be seen in such manner. ponder over these thoughts and dont stress too much about it. its not important. just be protected so that if she has been around at least your safe. (i would advise the same to any female as well)
2006-06-09 14:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by vik 4 · 14⤊ 6⤋
Well there is nothing gross about it really, its just sex its not as enjoyable if you do it with someone your not in love with.
Maybe the thing with you is that you have only slept with girls you don't really like.
If your not so keen on having sex at the moment then maybe you should wait for the right person to come along.
I also thing at 19 years of age is a bit young to be thinking about this when ur older you'll probably like it a lot.
Or find someone you like and get to know them like if you use a condom your dick will still be clean, but man i dunno i mean i never heard anyone over the age of 10 say that girls are gross cause humans are humans they all start off with the same things, maybe ur not gay and maybe ur not straight maybe your desire is to fall in love then have sex. But dude seriously sex isn't such a big thing.
Man this is weird i never heard of anyone that doesn't like having sex? this has gotta be that you haven't ever slept with anyone that you really like and this may be why you don't find it so enjoyable.
2006-06-09 20:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sereniti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now this is certainly unusual. In what way are girls gross? I think it's very possible you are not heterosexual or maybe asexual completely.
Every evolutionary influence going back millions of years as produced you as you are today and for 99.9% of the population it means feeling a basic animal like desire to mate and to pairbond.
For a heterosexual man just seeing the female form (especially a fit young female) is enough to have him ready for sex in about 10 seconds. Women are by their very nature exhibiting their health aability to pass on our DNA through reproduction.
I cannot even think why you would find women gross. It is possible that you prefer men which is fine as well. There is an evolutionary reason for homosexuality. Do you find the male body gross also?
Viking
2006-06-10 07:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thinking about that kind of things can make it seem very gross. But, if you really love a girl u won't even notice. Don't sleep with every girl you can get your arms around. That is a definate EWW!! Save it for the girl you love the most, and even then be careful, because even the prettiest girls can have STDs, and if she has it and u get it, sex isn't going to seem any better.
2006-06-09 20:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by hughrooloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need help of some kind ... Sex is gross? Jesus H Christ! What would you consider a great night in is? Cleaning your 'My little Pony' collection and brushing their hair maybe?
2006-06-10 00:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by emjay1212001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find the right person and amrry her then have sex! Saves you all the gross thoughts
2006-06-09 20:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lolly Pop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh! your at that cross roads in life are you? well! huh! my advice would be to find some one you really like, get to know them better, then worry about weather sex is disgusting or not, some how I think the phrase" the best things in life are free" applies here
2006-06-09 20:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in a way both female and male are gross..because first of all i dont know why u guys have sex knowing u can get pregnant nomatter what...and yeah these years there has been many hoes and sluts....
2006-06-09 20:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm, novel idea coming up rofl :D
How about, NOT HAVING SEX. If it grosses you out that much, then don't do it. You don't HAVE to have sex!
2006-06-09 20:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by richie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think...When you wait til your married...You won't be getting any then..So make up your mind..Or better yet join the monks, or wait...no thats a bad idea..Dude....go see the Dr.
2006-06-09 20:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by repoucar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the case, then you should consider dating and having sex with men--only men!
2006-06-09 20:11:13 · answer #11 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋