there is this boy who asked me out after we had been friends for almost a year. i like him as a friend but i dont want to date him. i just dont want to date right now. im only thrteen. how do i break it to him without hurting him. (he already told everyone i was his girlfriend even though i never said yes) i hate the looks i get from people, the comments, and the whole negative everything! the only good thing is the tile of bf/gf and thats not worth the risk.
2006-06-09 12:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by confused 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HONEY, THIS ONE IS EASY. SIMPLY TELL THE TRUTH; RIGHT FROM THE START. U WILL B HIS FRIEND, IF HE CAN HANG W/THAT, RIGHT? 13 IS YOUNG 2 B DATING! U COULD ALWAYS REMIND HIM OF THAT FACT!
** AFTER ALL GOOD THINGS ARE WORTH WAITING FOR.**
2006-06-09 13:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by MADDOG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really like you then you should be able to talk to him and tell him that you are not ready.
don't be afraid to hurt his feelings, just tell him in the most polite way you can(somewhere privet) so that it doesn't make a big riot.
explain to him that your parents probably wouldn't even let you go out on a date at your age anyways.
good luck!
2006-06-09 20:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by ilikepie1231 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire your intelligence and at your age, it's indeed very admirable.
Be honest to him and after you tell him about what you feel, try to avoid his company.
If he still pursue you, open up to your parents or anybody whom you feel close to tell your innermost thoughts.
Study hard while enjoy the gift of being a teenager.
2006-06-09 20:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by simply_sandy929 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him straight. Just tell him that you're not ready for a boyfriend, but you'd like to remain his friend.
2006-06-09 20:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him look you shouldn't have told people dat i was your girl. I'm not ready for a boyfriend yet. Yea It's mean but he shouldn't told his friends dat you 2 were together when you weren't
2006-06-09 20:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Phozzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him everything you wanna say, being friends mean that you should not keep secrets from each other. COmmunication would help a lot.
2006-06-09 20:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Isaac Hayes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him what you think about it. And, tell him to go back and straighten things out with all those ppl that he told you were hius g/f. If he doesn't, AVOID HIM!!!!!!
2006-06-09 20:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by sisterof_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.............if ur not ready for a relationship tell him and if he is really ur friend he would understand.......it is not worth to take the risk just for a silly title...................and about he telling everyone tell him that he just not have done that and tell him that he should tell everyone that he told that it's not true .....if he is a true friend he would do it for u!!!!!!!
2006-06-09 20:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by fairy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight to his face that you don't like him like that and that he is just a friend to you and you don't want to be more than that
2006-06-09 20:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Angie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋