oK. I've liked this guy forever now...but he's not noticing me and I'm always too shy to say anything to him! One of my friends said "get a boyfriend" but I don't want one just to HAVE one. I want one because I'll like him...not to just say "I have a bf" I really want to stop thinking about him but he's always one my mind. Because he has not much interest in me, everytime his name comes up I laugh it off and then feel kind of sad afterwards. I liked him forever but I don't think he likes me. I liked another guy for a while but just found out he has a girlfriend of 17 months...and even then I still liked the original. I see him tomorrow and it's an important event..I can't screw up by thinking about him or else I'll mess up on something crucial! What's the quickest and most painless way to just get over him?
2006-06-09 12:02:40 · 3 answers · asked by i love love 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL! Well that's one way, I guess :)
2006-06-09 12:09:48 · update #1
You can control your actions and even your thoughts, but don't force yourself to control your feelings. If you need to concentrate on something important, I am sure you can do it.
Look here.
Imagine having put him into a deep freeze for the day.
Like, the whole story... frozen, frozen as it is! As long as you need to concentrate on other things - keep your finger off the freezer.
When the event is over, you can go home and de-freeze it again. :) And you can decide then, if you want to re-freeze - maybe, forever... or do something about it, or what.
Good luck!
2006-06-09 12:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine him picking his nose.
2006-06-09 19:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like someone else.....
2006-06-09 19:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by tearsmaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋