L like this guy at work but he wont hardly talk to me but he says good morning or hi to me in the morning or sometimes he will come over to talk to someone and if im there he says hi i have been trying to talk more to him by asking him how hes doing and stuf but he just says im doing good and you but thats all thats said and i know he knows i like him because he always catches me looking at him all the time but i know he doesnt wont any one at work thinking things so what should i do to ask him if he would go out with out making a *** of my self thanks
2006-06-09 12:02:31 · 5 answers · asked by vickie130 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you just need to forget about this guy for a couple of reasons. First, if he REALLY liked you...he would just ask you out. Secondly, even if he did like you, office romances usually are a very bad idea.
2006-06-09 12:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yknow it's funny - I'm actually in the same kind of situation at work - I've liked this girl for a really long time and it seems like she likes me too but I can never tell because sometimes she'll greet me and other times she'll be really to herself - she'll flirt - but be kind of non chalant about it - personally I could prolly feel for the guy - he's prolly just shy though he may mean well - he just may have a hard time trying to open up to you though still wants to let you see how his personality is in a way as well - (may be in third person but he may be just nervous around you) believe me - those are usually the ones you want to get to know (esp. if they talk more to others than to you that in itself may be a sure sign he may like you) try to get into a conversation with him and just look into his eyes really closely - if he looks at you the same way and you feel a connection between you two then that's a sure sign as well - body language is very important - just be yourself - ask him how his weekend was or if he did anything interesting lately or how he's feeling - the more interest you show in him the less insecure he'll feel around you as well - also don't think so much as him being a possible new b/f but just getting to know him as a friend - (believe me - it takes so much pressure off the situation) best of luck! :)
2006-06-15 09:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by slvrserfr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach this delicately
he might already have a gf or not be interested in you --- and you have to keep working with him!!
just attempt to engadge him in conversations around things he likes and you like, play it really cool and make sure you have the field scoped out before making any moves - if then it all looks good - casually ask him if he wants to catch a movie (maybe one you have mentioned in conversation that he liked too?) - easy low key no expectations - just 2 workmates seeing a film they both want to see - then build from there
softly softly slowly slowly and you wont make a d*ck of yourself!
by the way office romances are not bad as long as you play them cool - quite a number (around 25%) of people meet their long term partner at their work!!!
2006-06-09 19:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound bad but there is a saying about Don't shop for meat where you get your bread...
RUN.
Office romance can lead to really uncomfortable times for everyone involved. It is just a BAD idea.
2006-06-09 19:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me help you here, work romances is a very, very bad idea.
But, he's probably worry about his job and who knows he might even like you.
It's a lot of work and requires craftmanship to date someone from work.
2006-06-09 19:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by resiste_lfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋