i once told an ex that i would give up anything to be with her...she said i was obsessive and used that as one reason to break up with me. am i obsessive? if i am, how do i change that
2006-06-09 11:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by prince ali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i went out with her for a year and a half
2006-06-09 12:00:50 · update #1
The key to that would be never to say things like that lol make then think u really don't care!! The bad thing is you are a guy and was being totally honest with how u feel and i would love to find a guy like that!! I wish more guy could tell how they feel and what they want!!
2006-06-09 11:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been called possessive ( is that the same as obsessive ?) But that changed alot when I met Linda 22 years ago. It seems that I didnt really deep in my heart trust the girls I was dating, which made me feel like they would leave or cheat (or cheat and leave) Feeling that way eventually drove them away. Linda, I trust completly, so we have a very good relationship.
When you meet one that puts you at ease, and you dont feel the need to hold on tooo tight, then thats the one !!!!
By the way our relationship grew slowly. we were not together all the time, we went to different schools,,,,, just occasional dates for the first two years,,,,,, then steady for 4 years,,,,,now married 16 years
2006-06-09 12:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by apup76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Did you say that "in the heat of the moment" as they say? Is this the only person you have ever felt that way about? In those cases, I'd say no.
BUT, if you get like that in every relationship, then perhaps you need to step back and keep your distance and not get so attached so fast. i know, hard to do, right? You can do it.
2006-06-09 11:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by MeMi96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not obsessive it's just that you really love her.I wish a guy would say that to me. Man, your ex is freak'n crazy to reject you!
2006-06-09 11:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't have told her that becuz some grls wud be really freaked out, i wud b. it's not everyday somebody wud say that. if that's true 4 u, and she doesn't like that, then u 2 r not meant 2 b
2006-06-09 11:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T KNOW YOU PERSONALLY. BUT, WHAT IS BEING ADDRESSED NOW IS OBSESSION. YOU WERE READY TO BE COMMITTED. SHE WAS NOT AND CHOSE TO MOVE ON. YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME.
2006-06-09 11:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by SLOWTHINKER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that is obsessive. i think that thats sweet. she is crazy for letting you go and shes obviously not worth it. find someone who will apretiate your love and caring nature.
good luck
2006-06-09 11:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no yr not being obsessive. your just inlove and shes not
2006-06-09 11:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a lot of people and dont be serious about none
2006-06-09 11:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by dirtee diamondz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look all that energy you spend on her put it on yourself you come first
2006-06-09 11:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by young one1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋