he wants me to have his baby and i'm a 15 yr old virgin i told him no over and over but he will not stop i love him and all but i think thats all he wants from me but why? i mean we have a great relationship but this is a bugger and i know i'm now going to have his baby at the moment and i tell him that but he just gets madder everytime i say no to him on that subject. JUST WANT TO KNOW WHAT YA THINK????
2006-06-09 11:20:39 · 13 answers · asked by yodigurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not pregnant
2006-06-09 11:25:06 · update #1
he is 17, 18 in september
2006-06-09 11:32:49 · update #2
He's scared to lose you so he's trying to "trap" you by knocking you up. Do NOT get pregnant you are WAY too young!
2006-06-09 11:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are both really and truly in love, you can both wait 'til you are eighteen, or the legal marriage age in your country...and how does he plan to support you both(if you don't have a job, or lose your job) and a baby? Babies are not relationship glue. Having a baby to try to stay together is more likely to tear you apart. This is statistically proven! Does he have his own house or apartment? Then you'll probably have to stay at your house, with your parents. Or, after you're pregnant, he might change his mind. It has been known to happen. Please-for your sake, and the possible baby's sake, wait.
2006-06-09 11:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to have a baby. You need to wait until you have a steady income and the maturity to have a baby (perhaps after the age of 20). He probably just wants sex because you and he have never had sex before. I know you love him, but if he doesn't respect you enough to listen to what you want, he doesn't love you enough. Maybe you should take a break or tell him to stop pushing you.
2006-06-09 11:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by King Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! Don't do it for many reasons!!! One, he's just trying to trap you. Two, you really are not old enough! Three, do you really wanna spend the next 18+ years dedicating your life TOTALLY to the child and no-one else!? Have you got a job? Good pay is it? Babies cost in excess of $2000 a year AT LEAST!
If he really loves you and is not using you, he WILL WAIT. Otherwise, welcome to Single Motherhood, cos he WILL dump you when he see's your body go to hell after having a child.
2006-06-09 11:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He doesnt love you but instead has a need to love and be loved without question. He may have a bad family life or something and so is projecting that into his desire for a family. You are wise to say no, but in the long run you would be better off without him, as he seems to think of you as a walking incubator.
2006-06-09 11:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by mookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to leave him alone! because if he can respect the fact that you are saying no then let him go. you are too young to have a baby, way too young! if you do decide to have a baby by him he might leave you and you will be a single mom and struggling in school. but im my own opinion you need to let him go before he traps you.
2006-06-09 11:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by cococutie4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15... WAY too young to have a child. Tell him that if he doesn't respect your wishes, he should find some other girl that wants to have his baby. I know you love him, but if he cannot accept that fact that you are not ready, you don't need him.
2006-06-09 11:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by ddevilish_txnfml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way iam am only 13 i say no way girl if that boy really loves you at your age he should respect your choice if you say no you say no once you get preganet your life will be reiuned if you want to do things in your life you can't have this baby
2006-06-09 13:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by tymia fowler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so how old is the guy. you forgot to tell that. and i don't think you should even be thinking about babies at this point in your life. your main concern should be high school.
2006-06-09 11:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to wait until your older the decide wether you want kids or not
2006-06-09 11:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by apw_lovedove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋