do girls still expect the guy to make first move?

Question

just a question asking you girls if you still expect men to make the first move? I think it's like a tradition for men to ask a girl out but is it time for girls to make the first move? also what would you think if a random guy just came up to you in the street and asked(nicely) for your number?

just a question asking you girls if you still expect men to make the first move? I think it's like a tradition for men to ask a girl out but is it time for girls to make the first move? also what would you think if a random guy just came up to you in the street and asked(nicely) for your number?

it's just i walk by really good looking girls in the street and prob will never see them agian and life is about living! no?

Answer 1

i think the girls like a guy to make the first move as they feel its nicer for the man too, but alot of guys like girls to make the first move. Only problem with this is its also known that guys like the chase so girls are kinda of stuck as wether to go for it or let the guy do the work. Also girls may look too pushy and scare the bloke. I prefer the guys to ask though but its just depends. About getting a number from a girl in the street, most girls or sensible ones wouldn't do that as you could be a weirdo, but you could say hi and i think your really nice wanna go for a drink? Then take it from there if you get to know each other and like each other then swap numbers. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Maybe it might have been tradition in the 50's or 60's for men to make the first move *grin* but now i think women are much more free to make their own choices and open and honest about their feeligs towards men-especialley sexually. years ago, when women didnt even have the right to vote, perhaps they were afraid to step out, for fear of being regarded as "eccentric" or "different", but now i think that women are much more independant in their approach and know what they want!

The same goes for men, as everything nowadays is steering towards equal rights, which i think is great! I think men should be able to ask women out, and vice versa, it doesnt really matter after all, what difference does it make! I personally prefer to be asked out, but if i was confident enough that a guy liked me, and the feelings were mutual, then i would approach him first! It really depends on the situation and the person i guess!

If a guy came up to me in the street and asked me for my number (and i was single, which im not!) i would maybe give him my number-if i thought he was genuine and there wasnt anything suspicious in it! Then again its not everyday that someone does it, so i might just do it for a laugh! I'd only give my mobile phone number though-not my home number! you never know who you might bump into after all! ;)

xx

Answer 3

Women just love having the power of rejection. It's all very well and good saying :"Men should make the move it's more romantic" but then you girls should also take a course in how to be gracious and polite if you're not interested.

So many girls complain about men not asking them out but they have only their rude/low-class sisters to thank for this.

We chaps are sick of being expected to take all the risk and dealing with ignorant, rude girls.

If you want real equality then take an equal share of the social risk that comes with approaching someone of the opposite sex.

Viking xxx

Answer 4

I don't expect guys to make the first move. With my current interest I made the first move since he is best friends with my brother in law and he didn't want to overstep any boundaries. If I like someone I will let them know. That being said I wouldn't give my # to some random guy on the street. That would freak me out!

Answer 5

there's an obvious reason why guys should do the first move,we're just so shy to do such a thing & we're so sentimental so if there's a guy that-4 an example-i like & i went there 2 him & asked him out & he said no then i'll be depressed 4 a very long time & men don't be affected in the same way in such sitiuation & 4 the other Q, my number yeah, but don't expect an ever lasting relationship.

Answer 6

I still think it is nice for the guy to make the first move. I would prefer that. As far as the phone number, I would be flatter and it would make feel good that someone was interested in me.

Answer 7

With some of the responses on here recently, most of the girls/women expect a man to make the first move and it is sickening!!!

We live in the age of (so called) equality... In the 21st Century... And women still expect guys to ask them out... Well, NEWSFLASH, you can get off your backsides and make the first move... We won't think ill of you, other girls/women might... But so what??? If you want something go out and get it...

Answer 8

I'm old fashion in that sense that I want to be pursued but I know that can't always be the case.

I'm now in a relationship that I had to instigate. He has had a thing for me for about five months now but was too shy to say anything in fear of being rejected (same went for me, which is why it took me 9 months).

As far as the guy in the street, so long as I've seen him around before and have made eye contact or whatnot, it wouldn't be so bad. Now if I really had no clue who he was....different story.

Answer 9

i like it when a guy has the balls to make the first move... but I won't wait around all time for him to get the courage... sometimes a girl just has to ask... i probably wouldn't give some completely random guy my number, but we could go get some coffee or something...

Answer 10

Yes it better for us because we would not know if u want us to kiss you or not so it work out for everyone if the guy made the made the first move