agree with them going around your boyfriend while hes at work even if he does work at a convenient store.
2006-06-09 10:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by revan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
don't be afraid
2006-06-09 10:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it involves your boyfriend, then I would suggest that before you confront any other people you don't agree with, talk with your boyfriend first. After all, the issue is between you two, not the 3rd party. You don't want to mess around with the other person when the problem lies with your boyfriend or with yourself.
A nice, casual and perhaps intimate and friendly conversation with an objective and open mind with your boyfriend would probably already clear up things without your having to confront or tell the other person about what you feel.
My feeling is that if the other wishes to see your boyfriend, not you, then it is up to your boyfriend to tell that other person, not you.
The principle is, always try solving from the inside to the outside; from domestic to foreign; from between closer and personal acquaintances or friends to outsiders. I hope this would be clear to you in dealing with relationships.
2006-06-09 17:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by TJ Zez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He works at a place that is open to the public. She can go there as often as she likes. Do you have any ideal how many females he is exposed to in a day. Get over it quick.
Love & Light
Sharon
2006-06-09 18:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by skippingsunday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too much afraid to confront that person, I dont know what to tell you. Maybe you can get someone else to speak you your behalf? Or maybe you can talk it over with your boyfriend.
2006-06-09 17:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should speak to this person, and also your boyfriend to see what his thoughts on this are, does he want this person coming around? If he doesn't maybe he should be the one telling them so.
2006-06-09 17:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by bryton1001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be happy in life, you need the self-esteem to fight your own battles. You are the only one you can count on to stick up for yourself.
2006-06-09 17:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Hillbillies are... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're better on the phone than you are at writing.
2006-06-09 18:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont what?
2006-06-09 17:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋