He and his girlfriend have been a relationship for more than 2 years and he says that they have been on and off; pertaining with trust issues in their relationship. He is ready to get married and start a family, but he doesn't feel that she is ready to make that step. Meanwhile, he flirts with me and says that he needs to start looking around, but it is so hard b/c he has been the gf for a long time; he really doesn't how to look anymore. So, I feel that I'm getting mixed messages b/c I don't know if he wants to talk to me like that or not. How can I tell if he wants to talks to me as more than a friend? I'm so confused!!
2006-06-09 09:35:14 · 12 answers · asked by kiwi82_sfa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants you and his whole gf story is like him trying to stop himself from letting loose on u don't get in between him and the other girl keep that door closed tell him he needs to give you space and he needs to solve that with his girl
2006-06-09 09:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by american citizen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get caught up with this guy if I were you.
Number one, you'd be a rebound for him.
Number two, hes coming out of a relationship that had trust issues, which means he might still have those issues and carry the baggage over to his new potential relationship with you.
Number three, the fact that he's flirting with you even though he's still with his current girlfriend isnt the best sign.
So I'd stay away.
Good Luck!
2006-06-09 09:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jupiter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is his method of cheating...and reason their are trust issues in his current relationship...always recognize a person who is hitting on you and is in a relationship will do the exact same thing to you...don't be confused that you may be the difference that makes him not do that with others...its not about a special someone with behavior like that its about who he can take advantage of and move on. Think before you react..he is counting on you to take him for his word...just recognize his word isn't worth 2 cents.
2006-06-09 09:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better leave that situation alone!! Walk away and save urself a lot of heartache. Trust me it takes at least 2 years to recover from a serious relationship, he's not ready and ur not ready to be the "rebound" Trust me
2006-06-09 09:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by ooolala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to keep his options open and if you do wind up dating him, you run the risk of him doing it to you as well. A stand-up guy would not do that to his gf...
2006-06-09 09:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by dspcfi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont trust me, he might be playing u . he needs someone to let him forget his stress dont let him use u.dont let mixed feelings confuse u eaither.call me 1876 455 3073
2006-06-09 09:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by sammyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not bother as it might be a set.all he wants is a roll in the hay before he ties the knot
2006-06-09 09:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT FALL FOR THIS! IF U DO, YOULL END UP BREAKING YOURE BFF'S HEART AND YOU PROB. WONT HAVE HER AS A FRIEND ANYMORE........ITS LIEK ITS A SCAM(OR SPAM W/E)
2006-06-09 09:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by alexaa jayy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont fall for it
2006-06-09 09:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by cutiedownlow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TOUCH IT WITH A 10 FOOT POLE.HE'S CONFUSED NOT YOU..
2006-06-09 09:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋