at his Batchelor Party? I mean is it reasonable for them to play golf, drink beer, bbq, and have good fun without the naked chicks??
2006-06-09 09:28:36 · 14 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur right seriously no strippers just be with the one u love.
2006-06-09 09:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if he does get strippers it's not like he can touch them anyway...cause that's not allowed an if they do let him it'll probably only be like a butt grab or something.......
If your gonna get married then this means U trust him right?? So there should be no worries.....Let the guys have fun an U girls go have fun, but don't go out an do stuff to get back at him because you think he's doing something wrong
2006-06-09 16:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy_Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not selfish and if he loves you he will respect your wishes. I have only heard of bad things happening when there have been strippers at a bachelor party so I would be edgy about it too. Or you can do what me and my hubby did. . . . instead of having seperate parties or a jack and jill (which I think its tacky to pretty much ask your family and friends for money) we had a huge unisex cook-out. It went pretty well and I didnt have the anxiety over wondering if my future husband was somewhere being a dirty dog.
2006-06-09 16:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by thugangel638 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the man have some fun before he is stuck with the same girl forever. It's not like he's going to fall in love with her. It is her job not a dating style. Deal with it and let him do this now before you are married.
2006-06-09 16:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I'll say that it is not selfish. There are plenty of way for him to have fun with the boys without making you feel that your relationship is violated. Men will understand this - boys will not.
2006-06-09 16:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by ksjazzguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not selfish at all. Guys have a way of egging each other on, who knows what'll happen. If you find out they did, get some strippers of your own.......... MEN! :)
2006-06-09 16:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he doesn't need stripper c'mon that was so college days or prom night tell him you'll give him somthing better on your honeymoon and him and his friends need to get a life and find better and more wholesome entertainment
2006-06-09 16:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by american citizen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to best man. with your fiance. And marten of honer,
See if you cant bundle it all into one huge party.
I and my husband did this and had a ball.
Just a suggestion
2006-06-09 16:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strippers are harmless,it's just fun,if you are that insecure why get married?......anyway the friends usually book them for their own benefit.
2006-06-09 16:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by best of the brits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not at all. No need for him to have strippers.
2006-06-09 16:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋