let me know so i know what to look out for....
i wont tell anyone i promise ; )
2006-06-09 08:53:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the man I'm dating has a wonderful personality and looks like crap, I have been known to fantasize him looking like someone more attractive, until he lets his hair down and becomes the beautiful person on the outside that he is on the inside around me.
I'll call him, apologizing for being extremely late after we've been dating a while (purposefully) to test whether he has control issues. If he gets bent out of shape because his plans were disrupted or altered, I know that this is a guy to pull anchor from.
I'll usually let a guy see my worst side first and if they can handle tthat than I make him feel at home to see if we can both put our neutral rather than best foot forward.
There you have it. I just want people to be themselves and give me the opportunity to see the real them and decide I do or don't want to be involved. I don't like to be tricked into liking someone who doesn't exist. That is where many men mess up. Impress the person that is right for you, not trap someone who is not.
2006-06-09 09:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright well i like to ask a lot of questions. if the guy seems to answer the way he thinks i want him too but not honestly. then i tell hm that i am not intrested. i want a guy that will be honest with me and not just tell me what i want to hear. also i like to ask a guy how many times he has had sex, or how many partners and there names. then about a week later i ask the same question and see if he say the same names and the same numbers. or sometimes i tell a guy that i like to pay my own way and if he does not at least put up a little fight then i dump him. i don't want him to always pay for me but i want him to want to.
2006-06-09 09:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already on the wrong page dude. Personally, I hate guys that try to hard to impress me instead of being themselves. Besides, If a girl "plays games" and gives "tests', why would you want her anyway?
2006-06-09 08:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The respect, frequency of contact. How you behave in public around other women. If all your stories add up. Also hygiene. I hate a man that has a dirty appearance. Wash your entire face! no black heads, dirty ears and filthy nails. wash your *** floss it by all means! no skid marks in your boxers. floss especially! food is always stuck in your teeth and that makes your breath stink! dont ask me for money. i dont pay for dick. and if you are a certain age and still live at home with your parents....YOU ARE A LOSER! GET A LIFE.
2006-06-09 09:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have this test that I try out with every guy to see if he's faithful. I let one of my girls call them and act as if they have the wrong number, then I tell them to act as if they're interested, and if my guy friend tries to talk to that friend, I dumb him right then and there.
2006-06-09 08:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by niquedesires 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't play head games, it's immature. If I want to know something then I ask him about it. If I suspect that something is going on then I'll take measures to find out for myself.
2006-06-09 09:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only test i used was to have my sisters kids around a lot to see if he would be a good father. and it worked because he is.
2006-06-09 09:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean??? If you mean what i think you mean e-mail me and i well tell you all about it. but i'm not posting it were all men can see the answer!
2006-06-09 08:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kelli A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what fun would THAT be!!
Have a strong boundary (know what you like and what you don't), and don't ever change your mind...you'll be fine!
2006-06-09 08:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if their friend calls you, then they are checking up on you - and if you think a girl is playing games - drop her
2006-06-09 08:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Q Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋