i would think about it first...then answer
2006-06-09 08:27:04
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answered by wyldfyrsprite 2
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It all depends on who it is, and do you like him or what. So let's say you like him and you so want to go out with him. And he's asking you, so hey you wanna go out Saturday night? And then you smile and say what did you have in mind? See that gives you an out if he says something you don't like. If you like what you hear, then you say something like sure I don't see why not. You don't want to sound desperate or too eager. Then again you don't want to over do it playing the hard to get card.
Some guys really love that, but some don't and won't bother with you anymore. So make sure you got a good read on the guy before you play either card. Take care and good luck. Always remember a woman was not born to beg. Women should never beg or be desperate. Guys should fall over us. I know that might sound egotisical, but I don't care. I don't like seeing girls falling over guys and the guys don't even give them a second look.
2006-06-09 08:34:09
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answered by Anonymous
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It would depend on how much I liked him, if I liked him a lot (i.e. I've had my eye on him for a while) then I would simply say 'yes'. I don't believe in mind games, they're just a waste of time and everyone just ends up confused.
If you hesitate too much, it may send out the wrong signals and he may think you're not interested and give up.
2006-06-09 08:32:15
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answered by LONDONER © 6
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I think it used to be that you should wait, just a bit, but these days, if you know you like the guy why not accept?!
2006-06-09 08:29:47
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answered by Anonymous
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don't answer right away unless he is right there infront of you(you don't want to make him feel bad if hes like right there and you take forever to think aboutit, it might make him feel like you are giving him the ultimate blow off). if your on the phone, be like yeah that sounds great, but i gotta check my schedule and make sure i don'thave anything planned (that way it makes you seem like you are still a busy person, but you are not totally unavailiable all the time and not worth it). don't sound very very excited, the last thing you want is to seem like the one who is so excited aboiut one date. be more calm and collected (even though inside your probably extremely happy). and good luck!
2006-06-09 09:18:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Do ask that guy why he is interested in asking you out. After his reasonable answer, then you can go ahead.
2006-06-09 08:31:09
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answered by Deaf Malaysian Guy 1
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Depends if you really like him and know him to be genuine. If so I would say 'yes'. If in doubt say ' sorry, got plans, maybe next Monday', then find out as much as you can about him.
2006-06-09 08:32:15
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answered by voddybabe 4
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You answer when you are sure.
Don't play games. relatioships based on honesty from the start are more grounded in trust. i reckon anyway. People who are right for each other will be together, so games aren't needed.
2006-06-09 08:30:56
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answered by enemysprout 2
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if its just a fling,take a risk and answer the first thing that comes to your head..as in if you arent sure he's a keeper...
but if you like him take your time.he will like it more if you play hard to get.it wil also give him more time to think bout what he really wants...how he can live up to it
2006-06-09 08:42:26
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answered by Hmmmmm 2
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Wait half a hour to let him think about it.
2006-06-09 08:53:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Play Hard to get! It makes the guys think they have a challange! Don't answer immediatly...say "let me check my schedule & I'll get back to you!" **WORKS EVERY TIME! LOL
2006-06-09 08:29:29
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answered by Anonymous
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