my friend is dating this older women who has a child he is 23 and she is 34 she is really really controllong over him and treats him like dirt yet he still goes back why...she not even attractive infact she is a bit rough
2006-06-09 08:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my man is two years younger than me, at first i was a bit skeptical about it but now i don't regret it.
2006-06-09 08:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by cel_ry31 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
34 is not so old!!! I'm 34!!!LOL I have to be honest and say that most women my age are not necessarily controlling, but set in our ways. Younger guys (i would never date a guy that young) want to be controlled for some reason. I also think that it has to do with older women having more experience but that's not always a good thing. While we have more experience in the areas they are interested in, we also are more jaded because we've been through more. Does that make sense?
2006-06-09 16:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one reason men like older women might be a sort of Oedipus complex coupled with the fact that they might not have had a good relationship with their mother growing up. If it's not that, than it could be because older women are more emotionally stable and secure than younger women. They are usually comfortable with who they are, as opposed to younger women who still have a lot of hang-ups.
2006-06-09 16:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by beast_boy87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is 6 years younger than me. When I asked him why he's attracted to older women he said because they are more mature, they know what they want and he just enjoys an older woman.
2006-06-09 15:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I date younger men because they love to be spoiled and pampered and many enjoy it. They have more stamina and zest. I have always liked younger men because I like being active and like to train them they way I like them ; ) !!! I have NEVER been controlling and I am very open minded and sensual. They come back for more. I also never cheat and men getting cheated on hurts them also, even if they will not admit it. Younger men are great!!!
2006-06-09 15:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by pam_dare2dream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow sometimes they want control or a mommy material woman
2006-06-09 15:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more expierience
2006-06-09 15:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by chunga12413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋