how do i politely tell her that the guy she wants doesn't want her and that she embarasses herself every time she does this! i mean its gotten hugely bad like if i even talk to this person she flips out and gets all hurt if someone flirts with him! what do i do!!! btw she is 17
2006-06-09 07:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think she will listen to you? If not, then don't tell her. I am sure the guy will tell her. Let her make a fool of herself. If it bothers you when your together, go somewhere else and pretend you don't know her. And it depends on if you really care if she is your friend or not. Tell her if you don't care. or tell her and if she gets offened and doesn't want to speak to you, then she wasn't a very good friend to begin with. If I make a fool out of myself, I would want someone to tell me.
2006-06-09 07:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have the VERY same problem!!! i had loads of guy pals and she would always butt in when we all hung out together (even when she wasnt invited) and would hit on every guy she came across....and she would use me (introduce me to him). i dont know whether she was really my "friend"
well i told her very gently to "be herself" (in other words: stop flirting!). she didnt listen and embarrased herself a load of times too, and then earned a horrible reputation.
i finally flipped and yelled at her and asked why she loves making a fool of herself in front of others and doesnt she care about what she is doing. she got angry too... and that was the end of our so-called "friendship"
2006-06-09 07:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell it to her gently speak from your mind and heart. But if she doen't listen to you then just let her figure it out on her own.
2006-06-09 07:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad and pathetic..........i think you should just bite the bullet and sit her down and have the ol "I wouldn't tell you this if i wasn't your friend...." speech..... just tell her that while you encourage her to get out there and figure guys out, that the way she is going about it is all wrong... then offer to help her get it right.... dont forget to stress that you love her, and are simply trying to help her out....
2006-06-09 07:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll never listen to you.. its one of those things she needs to learn on her own from her own experiences...
2006-06-09 07:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋