I'm 21 and still single. What the heck is going on/?

Question

The last time i had a gf was in the sixth grade. Since then, i've been looking, trying to get to know people, and attempting to get involved with people. I dont understand. Why i have i been single for so long.
I look outside and see every other person with a gf. A week or two later, i see the same people with different girls. I've tried everything that i can to see if i can get hooked up, but they havent worked. Ive even tried waiting to see if a girl would find me. Still didn't work. I NEED HELP WITH THIS.

Answer 1

Maybe u just haven't found the right girl for you yet. Be patient I'm sure she'll some.

Answer 2

Ok, so you're 21 and single. PERFECT. The thing you need to do next is learn how to dress properly so women will notice you. Start by getting yourself some nice button down shirts and jeans. Also get yourself a nice pair of black shoes and a belt that MATCHES it. Do not ever wear a belt if it doesn't match the shoes. Women like a guy who shows style. So when you're wearing that shirt unbutton the first couple of buttons and shave your chest if you're a hairy guy.

Now that you have a nice set of clothes you might want to think about trying a new haircut, whitening your teeth, or anything else that you can do to improve the way you look.

Now, you may not know this but women will NOT come up to you and ask you for your number. It's the man's job to do that. Lets say you're sitting in a bar and you look across the room and make eye contact with a pretty girl. I bet you're the type who looks away instantly. Instead what you want to do is continue to make eye contact. Show her you're NOT afraid of her good looks. This will establish dominance. When it comes to communicating in general your body language plays a very huge role. After you've established dominance walk over to her slowly and just start a conversation. Don't use any pickup lines or anything like that because I'm sure she's heard them all. Instead what you want to do is look into her eyes and say, "Hello, how are you tonight?" and just let conversation flow naturally. Don't speak in a wimpy whiny voice, speak in a slow deep tone. The whiny voice usually shows nervousness. Show her you're not afraid to talk to her, unlike a lot of guys are. Now, during the conversation you might want to make a few sarcastic remarks to exhibit confidence. Here's a couple examples... "That's a pretty dress. I saw the same thing at walmart a few days back." "Nice shoes, I bet they looked great when they were new." "That's a nice haircut, I see the military still does good work." "So why are you single? Don't know how to kiss?" Now when you say these remarks you literally flaunt your confidence. You act as if you're not afraid to offend her and can take her or leave her. This is perfect. My favorite rule is, "The less you try, the more successful you will be" Do what every guy DOESN'T and reap the rewards.

If a hot chick wanted a nice guy to kiss their asses and buy them everything in the world they'd be all over nerdy guys who would do exactly that. What they really want is a challenge and someone interesting, while funny at the same time. If at any point in time she acts offended just shrug your shoulders in a way that says, "Oh well, I couldn't care less." This is usually a test to see if you'll become a wimp and say you're sorry.

Like I said before, the less you try, the more success you will have. Sometimes my buddy and I will be talking to a couple of women and making great conversation. Then at the peak when they're really having a good time we'll just say we have to go and NOT ask for their number. 75% of the time they'll ask for our numbers or follow us out the door to a different bar. Be original and you'll experience what a lot of guys don't.

And finally, when taking them out don't blow all of your cash like every other dude does. What you want to do is take them for a nice walk in the park or a forest preserve, cooking class, coffee, etc. Show her that you alone are enough to impress her. Spending your bank account on women is for nice guys. We all know where nice guys finish, don't we?

Answer 3

21 !!!! Don't dwell on it, just enjoy being single.! I did not get married until I was 32. Hell, I did not start having real fun till I was 26+ Sometimes when you stop searching for something it falls in your lap. Also sometimes to a girl, nothing reeks more than the stench of desperation. But here are some easy tips,

1 Keep your nails, teeth, breath, hair and self as clean as possible.

2. Check your wardrobe, it does not have to be GQ style but neat and clean. Invest in a few nice shirts.

3. Girls always check out your footwear. Spend a little $ here.

4. Never be the guy who drinks to much and gets sloppy drunk

5. Smile and listen.

6. And always on the first date, a nice kiss and walk away. NO groping, no slobber. If its a 1 time only deal OK, but if you are dying to see her again walk away and let her be curious.

Hey these worked for me, and I had pretty good luck.

Answer 4

She's out there and she is looking for you, have you tried looking close to home. My son, who is 25, kept saying there is no one out there when all along a wonderful young women, who is his best friend, was there, he just never really considered her. They just had to stop looking in the wrong places...

Answer 5

Go out and enjoy yourself. Trust me. You have plenty of time to get tied down somewhere down the road. Enjoy your time with your friends.

Answer 6

Dude you're not alone i'm just like ya but the thing is i need the rite one

Answer 7

remember this: she's out there it just takes time

Answer 8

Your probably ugly