2006-06-09 06:15:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
it's like taking off a bandade , you just have to come out and tell her , if she gets pissed and breaks up with you you can find a skinny girl and all your problems will be solved
2006-06-09 06:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Invite her to come work out with you. If she doesn't want to, whine and say that you really need a workout buddy and whine! She will love it once she gets started, almost everyone does and when she starts losing weight she'll get really excited and want to lose more. Also, influence her diet by example. When you go out together, order light, healthy food, whole grains, fresh veggies, nothing deep fried. You could comment on how unhealthy her choices are, don't say "That'll make you fat." say, "That's really bad for your heart." but don't push it or you'll annoy her and invite her to try some of what you're having. She might just be shamed into ordering healthier stuff by your example. You could cook for her too.
I was fat a long time till I hurt my back and I had to have physical therapy and after working to strengthen my ab muscles a few weeks, I threw on this old sundress, and I looked in the mirror and I was like WOW, I don't look pregnant, my belly's almost gone! I'm sexy! (Seriously, I was like Stallion Donkey on Shrek, I made everybody come look.) Now I'm hooked on being fit and sexy and my boyfriend isn't complaining. (Though he never complained before either, because he's a good boyfriend and values his life.)
2006-06-09 13:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by kaplah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to do this. Don't tell your girl she's fat.
a) if she's really fat, she knows it and doesn't need you to tell her.
b)if she's your girl, you need to accept her for her body type, and for that a matter, she deserves to be eith someone who does. She might be thinking to herself right now "it's so great that my guy doesn't mind my being a large woman". If you can't get past her body, you should break up with her (don't tell her it's because of her weight!) so she can be with someone who appreciates (or at least doesn't mind) her size.
c)if she starts exercising it's going to be for herself, not for you, and that's the way it should be. If she feels like you're "making" her exercise by reminding her about her weight problem, she'll just end up resenting you.
2006-06-09 13:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by cay_damay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a nice way to put it. My boyfriend tells me all the time that I am fat and need to lose 25lbs or he won't be with me any more. I only weigh 135. I am not fat just not trim. Just don't say the word fat to her. Tell her you want to start exercising yourself, and invite her to get fit w/you.
2006-06-09 13:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by crabby_kakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you never tell a girl that she is fat! cuz thats not even right...but just tell her that your starting to go for a walk everyday and ask her if she'll come with you or like if she lives with you just like you do the shopping and buy healthy food.. But all together tell her that your are going on a healthy life thing and get her to join with you?
2006-06-09 13:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by juggalette606060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to say that! What is for sure is that females are deffinately sensative about their weight. I would suggest just setting the example. For example, tell her that youre in the mmod for grilled chicken instead of pizza. When you are at home and bored, suggest going for a walk. This will seem more romantic than offensive to her.
2006-06-09 13:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by guerita_bonita2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already knows she is overweight. You just need to start doing active things. Tell her you want to join a gym and you would love her to do it with you because YOU NEED her support .
And you can also tell her that your worried about health risks and you want to make sure your both health so you can be together for a long time.
2006-06-09 14:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. People will lose weight whenever they want to and they are able to. If you tell her that she should, then she will simply become depressed about it because she will think that you don't find her attractive. If you support and love her then maybe she will get the confidence and start to lose weight on her own. I you start working out then you can ask her to be your workout buddy, but I wouldn't go any further than that.
2006-06-09 13:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really liked her, you wouldnt care that she's fat. But if it's really important to you, you could offer to go for a bike ride or jog or do a physical activity with her everyday, without having to tell her she's fat.
2006-06-09 13:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by eMiLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most women would probably tell you to suck it up and if you love her love all of her. However I think that you should let her know that you are worried for yours and hers health and would like to be more active. Try to find fun things to do together play sports, hiking together, swimming together, or if you both like to dance take a class and practice 30-45 minutes everyday together ;)
2006-06-09 13:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't "tell her she's fat" if you'd like to keep her as your girl! =)
Offer to exercise with her. It's something fun and healthy you can do together.
2006-06-09 13:18:47 · answer #11 · answered by circe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋