ok my mom wont let me go places by myself like the movies with friends im 12 and i thinkl i need a little more freedom please awnser and give a explination to convince her!! PLEASE
2006-06-09 06:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by bubblemonkis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a son who is 7 and im a single mom im 25 i can tell you that when he is 12 he wont be able to go by himself.. its not cuz were being mean or want to know your every move it really cuz we love you.. its not a love that you may have for someboy this love is very hard to explane.. i wish i could tell you that your mom is wrong and to let you have some freedome but im young and my dad still wants me to call when im on the road or going to the movies with my son... the reasson is not becuse you cant be trusted. i bet you are a very pretty girl and your mom may have fears of what some strange crazzy men may be thinking when they see you... so im 25 and i have my own house and im single and i have a 7 year old son. AND i still have to call my dad and let him know whats up.. why cuz he loves me.. be happy you have a mom who cares enough about you there are lots af girls out there who dont i have my dad.. good luck hun and god bless
2006-06-09 06:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mom knows what's best and when you get older you will understand that. My mom died when I was your age and I didn't get a chance to have all of those nice talks and or advice, so I will say to you enjoy the time that you spend with your mother and know that she is not trying to hurt but protect you from the cruel and evil people in this world.
2006-06-09 13:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as this may not be the answer you are looking for, your mother does know best. You are only 12, and there are a LOT of SICK people out there in this world.
2006-06-09 13:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sally Mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is 14 and i dont let her go to the movies alone with friends. I take them and let them see what they want and i see something else and meet them out front afterwards. There are to many things that can happen. Trust your mother that shes only doing what she thinks is best because she loves you. If it makes you feel better go to myspace and type this in http://www.myspace.com/cocomims thats my daughter she'll help you.
2006-06-09 13:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you asked 'should i be able to??' i will answer honestly and directly, no you shouldn't be able to.
while it is maddenning to hear your mother say 'no' to things, there is ALWAYS a reason..you can hate it, but later on, you will be thankful. of course, i know that this is a very annoying thing to hear..but hang in there. we all know exactly what you're feeling now.
also, i have to say, it also depends on where you live. if you are somewhere like nyc, it's normal she says no. if youre in a very very tiny place, it might be easier to convince her..
2006-06-09 13:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by happy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ur right that u need little more freedom
but still not big enough to go out by ur self with ur frnds to movies
so be anice girl and listen to ur mom
2006-06-09 13:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by jaunty143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r too young even to post a question in here. its in the rules. so just listen to ur mom now and do that
2006-06-09 13:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is right. She must not trust you for some reason and you need to talk with her about it.
2006-06-09 13:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE WITH YOUR MOTHER. YOU ARE ONLY 12. NOT 16.
YOUR MOTHER KNOWS WHATS BEST. REMEMBER ONE THING. YOU TOO, WILL BE A PARENT SOMEDAY. AND THEN YOUR DAUGHTER WILL BE ASKING THAT QUESTION.
2006-06-09 13:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by ASTORROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to obey your mom. She should know what is good for you.
2006-06-09 13:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Volleyball Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋