My friend thinks it's weird that i went out on a date with a 21yr old but i figured 4yrs isnt such a big difference. im not looking for anything serious. Is 21yrs old to young for me to hang out with/date?
2006-06-09 05:35:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know the age difference isn't big, usually i date older guys. i've dated guys his age when i was 16!
2006-06-09 05:42:28 · update #1
No in fact .. it's a lot of fun .. I'm 25 & my guy is 22 and I get to teach him some things and he gets to remind me I'm not actually that old at all ..
This whole turing 25 thing is getting to me this year for some reason !
Have fun go out with him as much as possible. It's not a big deal - I dated a guy that was 20 years older - now that's pushing it !
2006-06-09 05:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It deponds upon the the guy behind the age...serious relationships seem to be fading away, so if you're not looking for anything serious and neither is he, then there's no harm in dating him. I believe strongly that age should play a small role in deciding whether you date someone or not. I'm 29 and have had girls 17 to 35 interested in me and perhaps the most mature girl I've encountered out of this range of ages is 17. I say aslong as he's not looking for anything serious there should be no harm done, but if he is looking for something more, then might not be a good idea, leading someone down a wrong path leads to trouble and heartbreak
2006-06-09 05:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you're not looking for anything serious, then that's fine. 21-year-old guys aren't looking for serious relationships anyway. But when you DO change your mind and want a guy to settle with, and realize he isn't for you, you might hurt him in the process if he happens to like, fall in love with you. So just tell him up front exactly what you want so there is no miscommunication and that no one gets hurt.
2006-06-09 05:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what your friends think? Go out with whomever you want to, no matter their age. If youre into someone and theyre into you, why should age matter. Theres a small difference in maturity levels between women and men at any age. If he was mature enough for you, then I dont see a problem.
2006-06-09 05:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not weird at all my mom is 41 and she is dating a 35 yr old. and my dad is 41 and dating a 33yr old. I am 17 and i am dating a 22 yr old. I don't see any problems with it. As long as you are happy that is all that counts right.
2006-06-09 05:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suki at that age range it is defiantly not weird. I mean if the guy was 18 or something perhaps, but even then is your own free will, so NO its not weird...
Don’t let your friends influence your feelings towards another person who you like, they are just hating on you.
2006-06-09 05:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Once you're over 21, you're both practically the same age.
My significant other is 32, I'm 28. We act basically the same age, so no problems whatsoever.
2006-06-09 05:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Righteous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! 4 years is nothing. It depends on your personalities, anyways. If you are compatible and of legal age, have fun! Life is too short to worry about stuff like this!
2006-06-09 05:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by frogsnmonkeys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey listen to me..... no its not weird!!!!!!!!!!! i love younger men, always have.. my relationshiop now is a 14 year diffrence( the biggist one i had yet} im 33 and hes 19 and its good.who gives a flyin f what anyone thinks! love is love and get it while its good. dont let age be a factor. the heart dont know age diffrences. if he makes you happy then do it! dont question yoursef.... live life and enjoy
2006-06-09 05:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wierd for a 25 year old to date a21 year old my older sister is 26 and shes dating a 20 year old.
2006-06-09 05:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by eaw_mkj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋