2006-06-09 05:21:58 · 18 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
realize that your worth more than that first then take the step and leave before it gets worse like hitting
2006-06-09 05:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to be strong enough anytime soon, so you just have to do it. Find someone like a friend or family member to support you and talk to about it. Then just dump him. Nothing elaborate, because he will try to stop you by hurting your feelings. Say " You are emotionally abusing me and I can't put up with it anymore." Then leave him and go cry to the person you designated as your support. Find something else to do with your time to keep your mind off him and build yourself up so that you don't get into another relationship like this again. I wish you the best.
2006-06-09 12:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by xtraluvly03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that is. Just tell him straight up that he is emotionally abusive and you're sick of it. Mention to him also that if he can get help for it, or stop, you can stay with him, otherwise tell him there is no future between you all. Before you do this, make sure you are ready, because if you do it and you're not ready for the after effect...you will fade. Just give it sometime, and hink about the possitives, not the negatives of what can happen, and when YOU feel strong enough, do it.
2006-06-09 12:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by mtjiji_021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to sit down with him and have a chat about how he feels your relationship is going and where is it goin to be in the next few months.The best thing u can ever do is just be honest i no its hard but once you have told him you will feel alot stronger and better in your self i no u have the power girl just go for it!!!And good luck!!!
2006-06-09 12:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by :D DrEaMyEr :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have the strength. You just have to walk away. Go to a womens shelter or the police if you thing your doing so will cause him to go to the next level.
Your safty is what is important.
It will not be an easy road but it will be a better one.
Good Luck.
2006-06-09 12:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by ouwx104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait 'til he decides you are beaten down emotionally enough that he can beat you physically without you going to the cops. Won't that be wonderful. ....... get up in the morning and dump him, don't wait 'til you are strong enough, the longer you wait the worse off you are.
2006-06-09 12:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by aj351m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just realize that he is the weaker one because he is taking things out on u emotionally. just realize if u are admitting that u dont wanna be with him anymore and u can tell someone, then u are already stronger than him so just tell him its over and walk away so u can avoid any further troubles.
best of luckâ¥
2006-06-09 13:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Francesca♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? i would tell my parents and have my dad give him a little talk and remind him that what he's doing is WRONG and he's a little punk..
if you're older, then you should change your attitude. what if one of your girlfriends asked you the same thing? you'd tell them to drop that piece of **** and find someone who respects them.
this is really not that hard of a question... you obvisouly know the answer. just get some confidence and leave him.
2006-06-09 12:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by hg mccain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets analyze this one...
You LOVE someone who ABUSES you...and you stay with them.
That must mean that you feel you deserve the abuse.
Try talking to a therapist. They can help you care about yourself again and boost your self-esteem.
Good luck!
2006-06-09 12:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Spencer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has this same problem. I told her that if she is really done dealing with it that she will tell him how she feels and be stronger that him. He obviously knows your weak points and he pushes them all the time. Act like it doesn't get to you and be the stronger person.
2006-06-09 12:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by giovauni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋