I thought I had it all figured out. Then all of a sudden everything is wrong. Why are girls so complicating? Is there something that i should know that I don't?
2006-06-09 04:47:58 · 50 answers · asked by blah9008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hope this helps... guys commonly think that you have to do so many things to keep us happy..especially when it comes to dates and stuff....girls like things simple, even talking is nice...regular things, walking on the beach all that crap you hear is actually true....sitting down for coffee, talking, simple things /they dont always have to be going somewhere "fun"
show your confidence and your intellect....not just your dick...girls will be happy and dont be desperate..girls cant stand guys who brag about how much their loved by other girls poise, allure, confidence ahhhh the things that girls drule over
2006-06-09 04:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if you get one figured out that doesn't mean you have them ALL figured out, but honestly, it's not that hard to figure out MOST girls basically they are all the same and honestly I COULD explain it all to you, but it would take me some time. I helped two guy friends in high school and one in college get girlfriends (and pretty ones too) all by giving them some coaching lessons. BUT as in any set of "rules" there are the exceptions so there's always going to be some girl out there that defies your expectactions, the world would be a truly boring place if EVERYONE was the same. The truth about girls is they are SNEAKY, and sometimes viciously so, and they are better liars than most guys. Girls are so hard for guys to figure out because if you know what to LOOK for you can guess what they are thinking, BUT most guys aren't aware they need to be LOOKING, plus the things that girls say aren't always what they mean... BOY: "Are you mad at me?" GIRL: "No" (there no means yes, but she's mad because you don't know WHY she's mad). Anyway, I could spend a lot of time breaking it down for you, but I think if I did yahoo would kick me off for such a long answer, and you'd probably get bored reading it all. Honestly if you want a short answer, it is that women are complicated because they are very different from men in the way they communicate and their expectation, wants and needs. IF you are honestly interested in getting to know just how a woman works read the book Men are From Mars Women are from Venus by John Grey. It will help you a lot in understanding women and the way they work, and why it's so hard for men to understand them. Good luck!
2006-06-09 05:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kat__hleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're sophisticated beings, that's why you can't figure us out and we think you are close we'll change everything thing on you (especially our mood).
Seriously though, there's really nothing to "figure out" each person is different and you guys can be some difficult creatures yourself. If you're having trouble trying to figure out something that you may or may not have done, talk to the girl that you're having the problem with. I know it's not always easy to talk to us, but believe it or not we do like it when you guys show you care enough to communicate.
Good luck.
2006-06-09 04:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked The Eternal Question. Unless you have a lot of time on your hands, like migraine headaches, and don't mind having conflicting data to sort through, I suggest not worrying about what you know about them. It's a far better thing to understand yourself. People in general are hard to figure out. Younger girls are more apt to be playing their "boy drama" thing and competeing with the other girls. Some never grow out of it, but usually they move on as they near 30. But don't be dismayed, there is sure to be one out there that doesn't require any figuring out. Mystery is nice as long as it is about the soul.
2006-06-09 04:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for ya man I really do!
I had the same problem like 3 years ago, but I can safely say that I understand women even better then they understand themselves...
I read alot of answers on here, some of these women just don't get it!
I'm going to send you a link that I think might help!
Good Luck!
2006-06-09 04:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to figure us out because.....
1.We women are like the wind we are always changing directions.
2. Men usually got lost like a leave blowing in the wind.
So ur best bet is to go with the flow unless you find someone that will do what you want as soon as you think it and if ya do let me know I want to talk to her....LOL
Good Luck
2006-06-09 04:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are girls. Guys are guys. We will never understand them. And they will never understand us. The sooner you accept this, the sooner "dealing" with females will become much easier for you. I mean, do you really want to scratch your head over why females have these sudden mood swings(when they're not pregnant or on their period? Or why do they say they want a nice guy, but end up f***ing the bad boy?)
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-09 04:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is actually because men and women think of things completely different. when you think of something just imagine to yourself the way a woman would view it. like sports. for some girls it isn't all that fun sitting around watching men in hats throw balls around. we just think differently that is all. if men and women all thought the same then there would be way too many women minds around. that is why men think that they know a lot whereas women really do! no i am kidding. but it is just that we view the world differently and different things effect us differently and we have thoughts that don't make sense to the other sex.
2006-06-09 04:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Holly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are very complicated and it may take years to understand. If you are a good listener and observer, you'll figure us out.
2006-06-09 04:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend all your time trying to figure them out then you will miss out on the enjoyment of just being with them. Don't try figure them out because most of them are trying to figure themselves out lol. They are a beautiful part of life and can be very enjoying and just don't get to involved in the process and let happen what happens
2006-06-09 04:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love us or hate us but never try to understand us. My husband is the most mellow go with the flow kind of guy and I still try to pick fights with him.......Why?........I don't know. Women are very emotional.......... nothing is black and white..... never...... ever.......I am so sorry for your woman trouble the best thing to do is try to talk to her and find out what she is really feeling. It will make you crazy but if you are patient and show her that you care at least this hurdle can be jumped....until next time. Good Luck.
2006-06-09 04:54:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋