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I love him sooooo much but I cant see him because all she does is say ur not talking ot him b/c he controls you.. I come in every day when I get home from school and tell him about my day. She said oo ur telling him what boys u talked to and thats none of his bizz. What do I do... I really care alot about him and hes the only one that understands me and there really is no way for her to understand.

HELP PLEASE

NO HE DOESNT CONTROL ME.. Trust me I wouldnt be in a relationship like that!!

We have been together two yrs. I mean how much time does she need?


What should I say to her when I talk to her. I dont think there is anyone like her what she says goes. I mean I am going to end up messing my life up b/c her SHE is the one who is controlling but I mean i know she is my mom and everything but I mean its my life and if she thinks he is controlling me then... She is mad b/c I didnt have a party i told her ppl would want to smoke & drink but she said he wouldnt let me Im 16!

2006-06-09 04:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

6 answers

well i guess your mum is trying to protect you and what she thinks is the best, however being a mum myself every child needs to find out things for themselves weather that be for the good or bad, you need to tell your mum how you feel tell her your old enough to make up your mind she cant choose who you go out with but she can give your her opinion its up to you to take it you need to tell her you have made this decision and that she needs to stop controlling who you go out with you will go through your life making alot of mistakes but that is normal as a mother i will never tell my children who they will date etc i will give them my opinion yes but if the worst comes out of it parents need to tell there children they will be there for them and i think your mum needs to do the same. good luck???

2006-06-09 04:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by just me 2 · 2 0

Sorry but I'm on moms side. She is older knows more and has your best interest at heart. Boys are not worth messing up your relationship with your mom. Trust her and go with her advice. When you are a woman you well see she was right on.

2006-06-09 12:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0 0

you only have one mother in life boys come and go...if you think you are ready for that boy can you wipe your self ..means..by paying your own money for your mastake on pleasures.. every thing maybe gloomy ...be happy you have a mother who gards your actions maybe she see what you dont..you are a dreamer he dont understand you ...he is manipulating you to get what he wonts..look up manipulating so you can understand..good luck....

2006-06-09 12:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe you should get your mother and BF to get to know eachother better. Invite him over to a family night and let them talk and get to know eachother. If he's as good as your say he is, then your mother should have no problem with him.

2006-06-09 11:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♥§weetiepie♥ 3 · 0 0

I'm sorry she's pushing you to the wall,try to make her understand you love him

2006-06-09 11:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

warn your mom tell her she can complain all she wants,but you're still not ending this relationship.She has to understand that you love him and he loves you that's all that matters.

2006-06-09 11:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nohemy A 2 · 0 0

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