Have you lost your virginity, if so at what age? Or if you haven't, why? And what do you think about people who haven't or choose to keep it in this day and age? Are they sad losers who can't get any or are they just saving themselves for someone special? Let me know.
2006-06-09 04:32:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 40 and still a VIRGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-09 04:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jim M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was 19 and a half when I lost my virginity. (I'm 26 now) I had only been with that one man until very recently. I have a great deal of respect for people who save their virginity. I would never think they were "sad losers." You are smart to hold on to it until you feel ready. I think it is a shame when someone loses it too young. That said, I'm glad I started having sex when I did, because I feel I was mature enough to handle it and I don't regret it. I'm not sure if this helps any, but I hope it does.
2006-06-09 04:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by fenka 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 19. As far as what I think about virgins, it depends on the person. Some people would like to, but can't get any. And then there are others who won't do it cause they're scared, and others who won't b/c they are trying to be pure for their spouse or the right person. There are a lot of different circumstances surrounding each person. Me, for example, I was saving it for the right person, not necessarily my husband, but just the right person. I wouldn't take it back.
2006-06-09 04:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Julia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16. People who have not lost their virginity are not losers. I have a good friend who is still a virgin and he is 28. He is waiting for the right girl.
2006-06-09 04:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine at 19 years of age. I was very shy, and I could have been an old virgin in a nursing home one day. I still would have been a good person though. Losing my virginity didn't change me much as a person, and there's no way I would judge folks harshly for being a virgin at any age.
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2006-06-09 04:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by a1_guy_4_fetish_gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm almost 24 now and i lost mine to my husband (before we were married or engaged) a month shy of 20, and i'm a goodlooking person so looks didn't have to do with not doing it earlier, its just a one time thing and i always wanted it to be important and not something i'd be ashamed of like i've seen with so many of my girlfriends and there experiences, i just had an instinct when i was a teenager and it was a very important issue for me, i didn't want to waste it on some random guy i probably woudn't know in a year, i'm not really church goer so it wasn't a religious issue, i just valued myself more, and a lot of other people thought more of me too which was pretty cool, so i think being a virgin is great and a very attractive quality
2006-06-09 04:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by AFwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 16. I dont regret losing it to the person i lost it to cuz i loved him but since then i have got myself an amazin new bf who treats me better and to be honest i have learnt more from him. If people are still virgins then i respect them. Pressure is one of the main reasons why people lose their virginity but whats the rush? It may or may not happen one day but if it doesnt then so what because it does change the way you are. Its just a label
2006-06-09 04:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 and I'm 25 now. For those that are still virgins, I dont think they are losers, they just arent ready yet. Most likely you are just in jr high or hs. Sex is not that big of a deal and it will come to you sooner or later. You shouldnt be in a rush to have sex. It comes into your life with many more issues, so I would just be patient.
2006-06-09 04:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by cup_o_shina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16. And I wish I had waited. Most people say that you know, so I hardly think that people who are virgins are "losers". Perhaps you should examine where you got such an idea from. It is the moral and responsible thing to do, especially in this day and age of diseases and pregnancy.
2006-06-09 04:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 17, i'm 31 now, and looking back, i kinda wish i'd waited a bit longer. I think it's wise these days not to be in a rush to lose your virginity, big respect to those who have held on to it, keep it for someone special, you won't look back with regret then.
2006-06-09 08:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by titch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 Its not sad I think people wait for the special someone to come into their lifes. Unless you a freakin horn dogg or something. Trust me its worth the wait and I mean it. I regret the first time I lost it becuase I think it cost me a relationship if though she was the one that wanted. So no is a loser or anything they are just wanting for that special someone to come along thats it.
2006-06-09 04:37:55 · answer #11 · answered by mjblic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋