i was at a party and i was raped by a gang and i got pregnant by one of them i was only 13 and i went to the police and they did not do nothing about it.What should i do?now im 16 and my baby's father is 21
2006-06-09 04:22:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
at the time he was drunk and after the baby was born he said sorry and asked to see his child i said yes was that the right thing to do?now heasking me to go out with him
i dont know what to say
2006-06-09 04:24:50 · update #1
After reading your previous posts...I can only say that you have ALOT of growing up to do. It is sickening to see that someone would post a scenario such as this as a means by which to get attention. There are actual children out there that have endured atrocities that you cannot even fathom. And yet, here you are seeking attention by making false claims that deal with some very heinous acts. Grow up and realize that posting questions such as this one for your entertainment is absolutely reprehensible.
2006-06-09 16:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by sprouty_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming since it was a gang rape, no one was really wearing protection, are you sure he's even the one whose the father?? Honestly, honey I don't think you need to be in any type of contact with him at all because he waited three years to get in contact with you. If you've been raising your child fine without him I would continue to do so. How can you even begin to explain to your child when its of age to understand about their father?? Just imagine for a sec how that conversation would go? I would confide in someone of a higher authority and see if you need counseling or something of that sort. I hope everything works out for you.
2006-06-09 06:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by luvhurts004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all my friend pray and if u dont know God accept him in ur life right now. Then take this day by day because time will do all the healing and i know u are young but children make majority of people grow up so forgive each other create peace and pray continually
2006-06-09 04:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Andre F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go back to the police and beg to get help, and I wouldn't allow your baby to be around a person of such lower character. He's/her father or not you have to look out for him /her that's your job. It sucks but your baby is number one. I hope things go well.
2006-06-09 04:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by lovlylittlelady81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first your under aged as$ shouldn't have been out at a party where there was drinking .and two you parents need somebody to kick their as$ to let you go out like that,and three WHY in the hell do you want to go on a date with someone that raped you ,didn't you get enough,your stupid as hell girl!!!
2006-06-09 05:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your parents in all of this? You need some guidance from someone other than here. I'm surprised he has the nerve to have any contact with you if he raped you.
2006-06-09 04:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he paying child support or not? He has a legal obligation to support that child until he or she turns 21. If you date this guy, go with a chaperon until you are 18, but you are under no obligation to date him if you don't want to. Until then, don't go anywhere alone with this guy.
2006-06-09 04:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Huey from Ohio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i first off do not believe that the law did nothing for you, but if so go back!! you have at least 7 yrs to file that!!! go to your parents, they need to help. but if he raped you then NO do not be around him!
2006-06-09 05:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him take responsibility first of all, for his child. and if you think he's being genuine then take him back. but if you have even the slightest doubt, DON'T.
2006-06-09 04:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents about this.
2006-06-09 04:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋