My BF told me last night after i "did him a favor" that he looks forward to the week that im in my period because i do him more "favors". That really hurt my feelings alot cause if he only knew how much sh*t girls have to go through and for him to sit there and say he LOOKS FORWARD TO IT. How would he like to go for a week without sex and have to service the other without any returned favors??? My skin is crawling cause I cant get this out of my head...what do I tell him when i go home this afternoon?
2006-06-09 04:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
compromising is the glue that can make any relationship stronger and happier. Now as for him looking forward to your red day so that he can receive your compromise seems to me that he is a little bit confuse about his relationship with you but I am sure that if he might understand what you are feeling if you just tell him what you told all of us, if not then bounce him to the curve and get on with your life OK.
2006-06-09 04:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "I don't want to make a big deal or argue about this, but I want you to know that it bothered me when you said (whatever he said)". Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't at least try to understand. Just stop having sex with his ungrateful a**. And find someone who appreciates the "favors" you do for him. Relationships need to be 50/50. You shouldn't feel used or as if you are giving too much and not recieving the same in return.
2006-06-09 11:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by xtraluvly03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you when he says that, then why are you giving out? Save your body for your husband. He's a guy and if he can get some, of course he'll look forward to it.
You deserve better than that.
Respect yourself.
God Bless.
2006-06-09 11:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is showing what a butt head he really is. if he thinks that little of yo that it is work for him to take care of you tell him to fink a knothole or madam palm to work is self off. His attitude needs a major adjustment. If you let him continue the abuse will only grow into something else. Take charge or change partners.
2006-06-09 11:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't do any favors when you flowing. He sounds like a real winner by the way.
2006-06-09 11:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by .357 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shallow and is just using you. Dump him and find a guy who cares about you and respects the way you feel.
2006-06-09 11:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he owes you a favor each time you give one. :)
2006-06-09 11:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by alhemi18@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe he said that. You dont deserve to be treated like that, no one does.
2006-06-09 11:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pah!! tell him to kiss ur ***!! tell him that if he doesnt respect u and ur personal self, then ur gonna find someone that will!!!!
good luck!!
2006-06-09 11:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by chelsey w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huney, if u don't wunt wut he duz then he'z not wurth it. trust me, i have learned that.
2006-06-09 11:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋