if a guy and a women don't trust each other, should they be together and then get married to each other?
2006-06-09 04:06:52 · 31 answers · asked by bobsgirl20067 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
No they should not, but i would be asking why don't they trust each other, if thy are planning to get maried, then there must be a certain amount of trust there already, and if they are planning to marry then they should be able to sit down and dicsuss why they do not trust one another. Personally, i have a gal i want to marry, but everytime she is not with me, she hangs around her old boyfriends and i am supposed to trust her, knowing she has cheated on me with them since we have been together, it makes me wonder if she realy loves me or why is she with me. I hoped it was because she loved me not them. But i am struggling with the trust issues too. She knows she can trust me that was never a question, but can i trust her?
2006-06-10 07:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by christianrobertsusa 2 · 16⤊ 2⤋
No because Trust is A big Part in a relationship, I would say once the trust is there get together and see what happens, But if you two don't trust each other what is the point, That is an open door for fights, and arguments.
2006-06-09 04:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by kizzykay86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you are trying to do, where you want the relationship to go, and the dynamics of the relationship. example: if the purpose of the relationship is to get married and stay together happily for only 1 year, so each partner gets a green light entry into the other persons home country for citizenship, then trust is not neccessarily required. The relationship iss more like a business deal, with mutual benefits and side benefits.
define where you are, where you want to be, how your going to get there and what it will probably be like in the relationship your in, and when you have that information clear in your head the answer to your question will be glaring you in the face. I garantee you can't miss it! you know the pang of pain you get when you stubb your toe? it's letting you know loud and clear not to do that again, right? you will eventually, and it knows it, but the point is its making its point unmistakably, then giving you the choice to do what you want with that information. Get the point about marriage clear first, then decide what you want to do with all the accurate information at hand. remember, a legally binding document does not take feelings and love into account during divorce preceedings. Its just a collapsing business deal, where everyone loses.
2006-06-09 04:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bawn Nyntyn Aytetu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no way, trust is the most important thing in a relationship. If you cant trust your mate, then how can a relationship last. Jealousy is one of the worst feeling a person can feel... I would either work on the trust issue or I would get out. Good luck,
2006-06-09 04:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, 'cause if you don't have that assurance that this person loves you and trusts you, then you're not for each other. Before gettin' married, try to make sure the two of you can depend on each other.
2006-06-09 04:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by kristian121989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is incredibly hard to have a relationship w/o trust...That should be one of the main foundations of marriage..ofcourse love being the first..It would be wise to first resolve trust problems n then see if ur ready for a larger commitment!
2006-06-09 07:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think that, Marriage will not bring trust into the relationship.
You need to find someone who you love and trust, and they the same for you.
Get out of that room mate situation you are in before you really get hurt.
2006-06-09 04:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by djyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is just asking for trouble. Trust is part of a relationship and marriage. Without trust you have nothing!
2006-06-09 04:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by SwtPrincess1128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would these people get married, I wonder. Marriage is a commitment, a lifetime of love and trust. It is not a game.
2006-06-09 04:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by NIshzhoni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably not a good idea. Without trust a relationship is useless, and the couple would be miserable because they would always be suspicious of one another.
2006-06-09 04:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by hex913 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋