2006-06-09 03:22:58 · 20 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they cant let go.
2006-06-09 03:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you were both, at one point, together and shared many experiences. There was a bond and strong feelings between you two. Even though you are not together any longer and the relationship has changed, there will always be that history and perhaps a connection. It is also something "familiar" and that made fade, but may never go away or be forgotten.
And it's not always a bad thing - what was done in the past makes us who we are today - so unless it's dangerous or causing some trouble, then perhaps it's a good thing to keep in touch in some manner. It lets us grow as people and helps us in our future relationships.
2006-06-09 10:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfort zone...I get along with my ex pretty well...at first to well, she had been my best friend for alot of years, until I realized I am not going to find a meaningful relationship if I spend my extra time around the ex...she even asked why I don't come around anymore...and I had to say I need to get a life of my own.
2006-06-09 10:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have children with them they will never let go , But i feel u were a part of their life for a long time and they do care , even a short time they felt something for u and u created memories that will live on forever in their life as well as urs
2006-06-09 10:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can vay for different situation but,in most cases,the ex usually thinks that you will sit back and be all lonely,They feel that they are the only one that you will want to be with.They like for you to think that they do not want you but they do not want anyone else to have you neither.
2006-06-09 10:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex used to call me everytime he was having a fight with his girlfriend...till I figured it out...one time he called me, so I asked him if he fought with her that day. Those calls stopped (for those reasons anyway). I think he wanted to be with her, but he wanted to keep his options open, and figured I would still give him the time of day. Dumb
2006-06-09 10:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by stacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex continued to contact me after he dumped me to go back to his former girlfriend. I used to think it was because he doubted his decision. Now I suspect it was to get back at her for ever leaving him in the first place. I eventually came to the decision that I did not respect him any longer (duh...) and I told him this and then refused to take his calls or see him. I think this was a healthy decision for me, looking back.
2006-06-09 10:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their still trying to hold on. Either they are emotionally still connected, or think they are, or they haven't yet adjusted to the fact that it's over, and they are still trying to pursue a relationship.
2006-06-09 10:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To check if the ex is still going fine without him/her.Maybe they want to justify those actions which made them go apart,by analysing him//her with other people?
2006-06-09 10:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they still like you and want to make sure you are suffering just as much as they are, or they want to make sure you are not doing better then them. its nature, thats just life. if you don't want to deal with it tell them to get over you and move on without you,
2006-06-09 10:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a good question but i dont know why also...im an ex
2006-06-09 10:26:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋