how do u change a person feeling towards u especially when u r nice but they take u for granted?
what are things u can do to change there negative feelings towards you
and change them to good feelings
any suggestions and thought will be gladly appreciated
2006-06-09 03:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's sad,but, if you're nice but being treated indifferently, you should think about changing YOUR feelings towards her, cause if you succeed in having a relationship that she doesn't really want, she could, one day, squelch your heart like a ripe grape and say "you pursuaded me into this". Do not, for god's sake, believe the false claim that women are usualy compassionate.
But I understand you if you can't change
2006-06-09 03:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nick P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to wonder the same thing. You can't change other people but you can change how you treat them so they will treat you better. I recently read a book called "The five love languages". This book explains that if you speak the right love language then you get better responses back. It's like talking to a french person that doesn't speak or understand english, it's difficult to communicate. So if you speak your significant others love language, then let them know yours, you'll be able to communicate to each other a lot better and will love each other more. Just a suggestion.
2006-06-09 10:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by "HKB" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be nice and have people hold bad opinions of you. There must be something that you have done in the past, or present, for people to hold thoughts of negativity towards you.
The only way you can change how people percieve you is to do what is right now and in the future. Your past is the past and you cannot change that.
If you do right it tends to have a postive affect to those around you. Karma is universal.
2006-06-09 10:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,sometimes u just can't. If its the case of someone U like mayBe U cud make 'em jealous. People dont know the use of something till its gone
2006-06-09 10:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bab-E@Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them, talk to them, let them know you do not appreciate being taken for granted. some pple actually do this without really knowing that they are doing it. just let 'em know and i am sure they will change.
2006-06-09 10:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Gee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid them if u show everything give everything but still they take u for granted or don't appreciate whatever u did forget them don't force yourself to them as long your doing fine and good....continue
2006-06-09 10:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the person can change the way they feel about you
2006-06-09 10:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change anyone but yourself.
2006-06-09 10:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we CAN'T change anyone, people change themselves.
2006-06-09 10:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by miss a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
2006-06-09 10:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kitten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋