Problem with gal friend?

Question

Im in lov wit a gal.I dont lik she talkin wit other men.she`s tellg im possessive and im narrow minded.she is software field n daily she mingles with lot of men.I can understand tats her part of profession.But im feeling insecured.

Answer 1

She's right, you are being possessive. Back off! Right now, she looks at you and sees stalker. Is that what you want? I didn't think so.

Look, you have to realize that no matter what woman you're with, they're gonna have male friends. That's just the way it is. You'd better learn now that being possessive is a major turn off for women. Trust is a very important issue in any relationship. If you can't trust her, it's your issue, not hers. The exception would obviously be if they've given you a REAL reason not to trust them.

Relax, enjoy your relationship and don't get so worked up.

Answer 2

Lov wit a gal?

Do you actually talk like this daily?

That may be your problem, if your dyslexic then i apologize, but if you didn't know, your murdering the written language of English..

Unfortunately you seem to think that the only "MAN" she should talk to is you, that attitude will probably turn her away from you, you can't determine who and when she can talk to people, insecurity sometimes causes us to act like this, although to show your "gal" that you really care about her you should at least respect that as a part of her job (Software?) that she'll have to talk to other men.. just like you would have to if you worked in an Office like i do..

I talk to women all day long, that doesn't mean i intend to take them from their husbands or boyfriends..

Calm down and relax, take a literacy course and then ask again...

Answer 3

I think you are being very jealous and overprotective. I'm sorry that you feel insecure but that is your inadequacy not her's. You head your question 'problem with gal friend', I think you need to start looking at yourself and asking yourself what you can do to improve your relationship rather than seeking to blame your innocent girlfriend. If you don't stop being so possessive you will drive her away. She is not a thing to be owned, but a person to be loved and respected.

Answer 4

Is there a trust issue? Insecurity comes from YOU. If the tables were turned, would you not be able to control yourself mingling with lots of ladies? You need to deal with your problems, or you'll never have a decent relationship!!!

Answer 5

you sound possessive. She isn't with you, and even if she was she can talk to whoever she wants. You seem to want to control her why? Have you been cheated on before? If you have or if you haven't you should see someone as you will never get a relationship to work being so possessive.

Answer 6

I know what your saying i used to be the same except i had reasons to beleive things were going on. Im trying to live by the rule of if anything does happen theres nothing i can do about it! Other than byeee and what goes around comes around!

Answer 7

Relationship all about Trust. You have got to trust her if you want your relationship to work..You might make to start resenting you if ypu start crowding her space so do give a chance to prove herself to you.

Another thing do try and make your own group of friends.It woul;dn't hurt you know. Goodluck.

Answer 8

Well it sounds to me like you are possessive and controlling. If she works with men shes gonna have to talk to them. Hell i have and bf and he lets me look and talk. She can window shop all she likes as long as she dosent buy. I let him look. Hell i even point out nice asses for him to look at. You better back off before you run her off.

Answer 9

if you are in love with this women then u should give her the benefit of the doubt and TRUST her. If she has never done anything to give you suspicion before why do you have it?

Answer 10

Get over it shes with you isn't she