i just dont get it!! i love my partner with all my heart but this is waying down hard on me, i dont want to even deal with this anymore i would rather be with someone else than go through another day like yesterday...what would you do, i'm so hurt and confussed
2006-06-09
03:00:54
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YOUR OPINION COUNTS great answer i love and that is what i will i just need to hear that, i met this great gril about maybe a year ago and since then we lost touch by she would have said the same thing!! thanks
2006-06-09
03:06:57 ·
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Get some guts! Act like you don't give a crap and start spending some time with your girl and guy friends, if he doesn't snap out of it, dump him. The pain of breaking up is only temporary, the joy of getting even is lifelong.
2006-06-09 03:04:35
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answered by YOUR OPINION COUNTS 2
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It's time to move on. You say you love your partner but it's more likely that you have become emotionally dependent on them. Relationships in which one partner feels they always have to work to please the other are often that way.
Remember, being in a relationship isn't about finding a way to make your partner happy. If you don't naturally make each other happy than you really shouldn't be together. To a certain extent you do make compromises to make relationships work, but your relationship should not be all about those compromises.
Take a look at your relationship and ask yourself if you are really happy. In all of your attempts to make your partner happy you may have forgotten about yourself. If so, it's probably better for you to move on and find a partner that appreciates you.
2006-06-09 03:08:23
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answered by swingtrader912 4
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sorry for what is going on in your life-always felt that if when i wake up in the morning and look over if a smile doesnt come to my face i am in the wrong place-you can try to talk with them and see if something is up but if no response than you have some hard choices to make-lots of love keep the peace old hippie-ps-remember it takes two for a relationship
2006-06-09 03:07:43
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answered by bergice 6
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yeah most of the times what do i do?just keep going until he realize his mistakes and absences.continue what u do now don't give up he will soon find out your hardships but if things don't really work well decide for you self even it hurts you must do something rather than he keep hurting you emotionally.
2006-06-09 03:09:03
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answered by effy 3
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If he is not happyy with you, he would not be with you. Ask if he is happy. Sometimes I feel like my man is just too good for me, but if I make him happy, then what else really matters?
2006-06-09 03:02:45
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answered by skigod377 5
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yeah let him know how you feel and change it be fore it becomes a ever day thing and you too lose the love you to have let him know how you feel right a way OK
2006-06-09 03:04:45
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answered by annabello726652003 2
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stay away from him for some time and see if that will work, if it doesn't get a divorce and move on with your life
2006-06-09 03:43:27
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answered by Anonymous
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sit in a calm place and better ask her what she expects from you and whats troubling her....
many answers are met by speaking out things...
try it, it really works
2006-06-09 03:09:48
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answered by manoj r 2
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people are not always made to be together. that is why there is dating, engagement, and marriage. talk to him about how you feel. if things don't get better move on.
2006-06-09 03:05:10
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answered by dude 5
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i think we all go through days like that its called pms, but if its worse then that then yeah you should go and find some one that makes you happy. good luck.
2006-06-09 03:07:15
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answered by littleluvkitty 6
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