2006-06-09 02:43:33 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
That's a tough one! My sister & I moved out right after high school because my parents told us they were giving us 6 months to get some money & a place, or they were charging us rent/utilities, all that. LOL That was motivation enough.
2006-06-09 02:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by paj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's many ways to do this. Though I'm sure being a loving parent is also in your best interests. First, teach her some responsibility. Suggest that if she continues to live in your house, then she should also be expected to do her share of the home chores, and cooking. In addition, simply don't allow her to continue to live in your house rent free. Hopefully at age 24, she is working at the very least a part time job (if going to school), and full time if she is not. She may have to begin with a modest place of her own, or even begin with a room mate to make ends meet. Go shopping with her for the things she might need in her new home... Furniture, decorations, pots, pans, etc... This method is a bit more subtle, but I think the best method is to have her begin paying rent. Soon she'll learn that she may in fact earn more privacy, and/or become more succesful when she pushes herself to achieve more.
2006-06-09 02:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now, she is 24 years old, ask her how much savings do she have tell her to calculate how much she has made in the last 6 years and subtract that sum from what her living expenses were and that is what she should move out on and tell her she has 45 days to find a place. and let her know that two women in one house is tow different life styles.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-09 02:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by jburgess39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's an adult and she needs to start acting like on. Talk to her about how you feel. Be firm and don't sugarcoat anything. Let her know that she needs to grow up and live her own life without having to depend on her parents. Explain to her that you may need HER support support later in life. Tell her to get over her irrational fears of the world and face it.
In the end tell her that you love her, with all your heart and soul, and as her parents, you will always be there for her. Tell, her that the reason you want her to leave, is BECAUSE you love her. NOT the other way around way around.
I hope it all works out. =)
2006-06-09 02:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a nice long talk with her,telling her its time she made a life of her own!She must have it pretty easy there,or maybe you spoiled her and made it easy.Must kids her age want to go out on there own and leave way before that age! Be firm with her,but let her know she is always welcome to visit you and call.Just tell her she is grown now and its time to leave the nest and make a life of her own.
2006-06-09 02:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by canasta_jim_wins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now if you can find a reasonable answer for that question let me know. I have a 49 year old daughter the same way.
2006-06-09 02:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont change the locks unless you really want to alienate her. But....make sure she is able to support herself when she does move out....like a decent job..and the skills to understand exactly what she will have to do.....alot of kids these days just dont undrestand what really comes with being on your own...then after your sure she will be ok and safe....I would give her a time line and stick to it.....tell her you love her and have faith that she will be ok..but..its time to begin her own life. She probably wants to be out on her own..but is scared...just let her know you'll be there for moral support. Good luck.....I've been there..and its hard.
2006-06-09 02:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her out she might b mad but she needs 2 make it on her own or mayb u should tell her that she needs 2 get her own place and life tell her that she has a week or 2 2 find 2 place then kick her out hope this helps u and she finds a place
2006-06-15 08:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by sweettart1325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her *** out and when sha asks were to go
tell her to go to hell u had to worry about her 4 the last 24 years its her turn to control her life
2006-06-09 02:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her its time for her to be able to be a capable woman and provide for herself. You have to be the one to get her out if she isn't doing it on her own. Or else she'll still be there when she's 30. Let her know that you will always be there for her and help her if she needs it.
2006-06-09 02:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by your_veela_dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋