in case you don't know, the hymen is what supposedly tears during the first sexual experience...though other factors, like athletics, can void that.....
2006-06-09 01:04:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because someone is not a virgin does NOT mean they are a whore!!!
2006-06-09 01:19:19 · update #1
i think that men who like having sex with virgins like the fact of being the first one who hit it. also the fact of having control of the woman, because when the girl losses her virginity to a guy she tends to fall in love with them and they are the love of their life and when this happens a man has control over that girl. also when a boy or man hits a virgin, he has an ego effect. when he hits something that noone has hit it makes him feel like hercules of that he has something going on downstairs. that is i think the most important reason of most guys. to me i think that it would be nice back in the day when i was younger but now i need someone with a little bit more experience. someone who knows how to work it.
2006-06-09 15:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you just trying to justify being a whore? If your hymen rips by accident you're still a virgin.It's not about the hymen.
. Nobody want's a girl who sleeps around except for sex and then they don't want to know you when they're done.
They say when you have sex with someone your having it with everybody who's been there before you. Some of us fear VD.
Do you sit when you use a public toilet? Imagine all the filthy peolpe who wre there before you and you might get a clue.
2006-06-09 09:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some men(possibly women too) feel macho if they are the first. Other people think it is sweet for a person to "save" themself for someone special. Maybe they feel like they are that special one in some of the not macho cases. Having more than one sexual partner doesn't make you a whore. Having a string of casual sexual partners makes you a whore.
2006-06-09 15:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Evil J.Twin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not even be dating a hymen, it might've broke during excercise or horseriding or something, but I think it can feel more special if you know you're the one that the person has been waiting for, if you know what I mean, but people should just trust the swallow and follow their hearts. (I think that was in Thumbelina) My partner wasn't a virgin when I met him, he's not a tart, he's just a bloke who regrets it and wishes I'd been his first and he didn't get any STD's.
Some people can be really nasty can't they?
2006-06-09 13:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mummy of 2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because guys want someone no other guy has had before. It's not about the hymen.
2006-06-09 08:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only dated two virgins in my entire life ( that I know of! ), and both of those were by accident. :)
Apparently, some guys just like the idea of "being there first."
2006-06-09 08:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Fairy Rie, they can, but they shouldn't be! Sorry Peace & Love, I really don't know the answer to this question, but I was told people were being mean to you, so I thought I would show my support. :)
2006-06-09 13:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about Love / trust / saving yourself and also cleanliness. When you have sex with one person, you also are introducing all the possible diseases that the person they had sex with and so on and so on. But, go and catch aids yourself.
2006-06-09 08:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you sleep with someone you are actually sleeping with everyone they slept with. Keep the list short.
2006-06-09 08:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by bubba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might say it is like braking new ground
2006-06-09 08:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋