Well, it all started when she went to a school where she has to live there in that school.(Sorry my english is a little... I hope you understand what my problem is anyway)
A while after that she become a little weird. I mean we always fight before(which siblings never had that?) but it never like this. She gets mad at smallest things I do. She talks badly to me like I'm a nuisance in her life. She does not respect me anymore.
Then, she moved to my school but her bad attitude towards me doesn't change even now.
My mum said she is jealous of me because I always get good results in my study, am confident of myself, and particularly because when she was gone to the other school(the one before she moved to my school), I got mum to myself.
My friends just offer advices, no comment on what happened.
My cousins who are close to her told me that she is jealous of me and she even thought badly about me, ex. I befriend her b.friend(my cousin) to make her jealous.
Any advice?
2006-06-09 00:17:21 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
uh eww she's 16. And b.friend is suppose to mean best friend not boy friend. ^_^;; Eheh sorry.
How and what should I ask her? I mean people here already know what her problem is. And she's a nice girl with other people except me. But, she's also a bad-tempered girl and very ill-thought about people motives. That's why she always fight with her best friends and my mum. She also gets jealous on her best friend that they have a fight because of it.
I don't do speak badly or using bad language either on people unless it is in form of writing which I don't always do. I'm quite dumb when fighting using language with people and I don't have fights much. So, I don't know what to do with her.
2006-06-09 00:35:08 · update #1
Oooops forget about the details about I don't bad-mouth her part. I was lost in my thought again hehehe.
2006-06-09 02:08:54 · update #2
She's 16? Good luck getting through to her. Odds are there's little you can do, short of therapy - and even that may not help. She just needs time to grow up. This is incredibly common amongst teen siblings, especially if one feels inferior to the other, for whatever reason. Give her a couple years. If her attitude is still hostile when she graduates high school, then she may have more serious problems. Just let her be, and kill her with kindness. She'll warm up to you again eventually.
2006-06-09 00:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by CrazyOphelia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 10:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably nothing that you are doing. How does your mom treat you two? Is there a noticeable difference? If so you sister is probably feeling like she is getting the short end of the stick and is taking it out on you.
2006-06-09 01:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, if she's your sister, and her boyfriend is your cousin- thats just.. eww.
Anyways. Maybe she's just angry because everyone keeps comparing her to you- saying that your better or she should be more like you.
Stay away from her boyfriend- thats not your territory.
Just ask her what her problem is, if she dosent' tell you, then there really is a problem and maybe you should just try to be nice to her.
2006-06-09 00:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Karmically Screwed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and hav fun with her......show her what having a sister is like.....maybe u and ure mom can set up a day where u 2 can go to lets say movies or an amusement park! also try talking 2 her!
2006-06-09 00:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by missvixenx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her, sisters are the best thing to have in your life, my sisters and i fight a lot but we always end up talking it out (even if it is after a week) and in the end we love one another and always will
2006-06-09 00:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her and see if she will tell you what her problem is whether it is that she is jealous of you. I had that same problem with my brother when i moved in with my grandma. He was upset but he got over it when I talked to him about it. He told me he was just upset cause he didnt want to live with mom lol. So just try talking to her.
2006-06-09 00:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its silly. why they do it? i dont knw but 1 tthing i can say is that she shouldnt be ruining ur life. she prob wanna be like u but cant. shes prob good at other stuff and make her see that. hope it helps. u cant be everything in life. u ave sum, u loose sum. if we had everything in life, we wouldnt appreciate anything. shes got somne talent that u dont have, if she not avademic, then she artistic probably.
2006-06-09 00:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best suggestion for u is to take her to a psychaetrist for better results.So that she can do well in her life.
2006-06-09 00:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk your lil sister and then ask in between what she wants from you, if nothing you surrender do everything buy her what she wants and in lil time she will be yours.
BEST OF LUCK
2006-06-09 00:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by abhi_masti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋