That comes from within yourself. When you stop telling yourself you are a loser, whether in your mind or otherwise, you will stop sending 'loser vibes' out to other people and they will treat you better. Have more confidence in yourself and have more respect for yourself. Never put yourself down! I can assure you, without even knowing you, that you are not a loser! You just need to become stronger.
2006-06-09 00:17:14
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answered by Hmmmm 2
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Your not a loser. Your just young. Just beacuse you have no money and not much of a life doesnt make you a loser. Things can and will change in the future.
Besides some might say that you have strong feelings that you are a loser may give you great amounts of ambition to be a bigtime success in the future
2006-06-09 00:17:41
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answered by johncharlesrealty 2
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look at the bright side of life, always be positive. Whenever u wake up, look into the mirror and tell yourself, "I am a champ. I can defeat anyone." Before doing something talk with yourself just as a coach talks to his players. Tell your best friend 2 remind you of things that you are good at. And last of all don't loose heart. Because if u don't lose today, you wont be able to feel the joy when you become a champion.
2006-06-09 00:30:09
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answered by the dark lord 2
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You could start waking up and looking in the mirror and saying I am hot. I am too sexy for my shirt. Start talking to women/men and go out on dates. Try the whole "I'm an innocent boy/girl" and it'll work. Don't be a jerk when you do get a date. Act kind towards the other person. Start caring about your personal apperance. Start getting atractive male/female friends. Go out and have a good time. Start finding "the one" right now. Get out and do something. It can start now, but the most important step to this is confidence. Hold yoru head up high and don't let the fear of rejection get in your way!
2006-06-12 18:23:48
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answered by underoath777 1
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You are not a loser when you go down, but when you fail to get up after going down. So if you have gone down in the past, don't stay there. Get up and give it another shot. It doesn't matter how many times you lose, but one success will superceed all your losses. Hope you know the story of Edison trying to make an electric bulb. He failed more than a thousand times, but his success has illuminated our lives!
2006-06-09 00:45:16
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answered by Siva 1
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Perform good deeds for the elderly and volunteer at hospitals or orphanages. Its impossible to feel like a loser when doing good deeds and making people less fortunate feel better.
2006-06-09 00:17:19
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answered by skigod377 5
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Make a list of all the good qualities you have. Try to keep in mind and jot down the things that you can do that eithere few or no others can do.
Smile. They say that a fake smile will lead to a real smile, and that always makes everyone feel better.
Wear things that make you feel good about yourself. When you feel good about yourself, you exude confidence and others notice that.
And remember that no one cane make you feel inferrior without your conscent, so just STOP listening to them.
Good luck.
2006-06-09 04:56:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Know this! you can't feel like a loser unless you give yourself permission; so stop the cycle now, tell yourself your a winner.
2006-06-09 00:16:50
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answered by Iron Rider 6
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stop being a loser and do something positive in your life.
2006-06-09 00:15:40
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answered by raz 4
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every one is dear to God .
but everyone can not succeed every where . there is some definite field / work for which God has send you and you are sure to succeed in that . so try your best in every field available to you . Beleive God loves you more than you love yourself and he cares for you . so never feel loser .
one more thing whatever is destined for you no one else can take and whatever is not destined for you no one can give
2006-06-09 00:20:43
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answered by siya 1
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