i believe i need help but i don't want to talk a therapist?

Question

ive had suicidal urges for 4 years and they just keep getting worse in an past year i would have killed my self twice if someone hadbt stoped me both times i was drunk

ive wanted to kill my self for long ive just started drinking hard the past year

Answer 1

quit drinking and go get some help.

Answer 2

First, it sounds like you have a drinking problem. Did you know drinking is a natural depressant? It's a downer. I would stay away if you are feeling depressed. Why don't you want to talk to a therapist? By seeing one, the only thing it says about you is you want help, and you are smart enough to find help where someone can guide you into self discovery. You may want to make a list of reasons why you carry this stigma about therapists. Once you have moved on, get help. Look up counselors, talk to friends or family, support groups, internet forums, or read self help books. Suicide is never the answer to the whole picture. Think of the aftermath that you will cause. Be safe and take care. God Bless.

Answer 3

Try reading the book of John. I'm not saying that a therapist won't help, but they are human too. God made you and no one knows you better than God. So try praying to him first. Stay encouraged.

Answer 4

stop drinking for one. It's a depressant. Try talking to someone, anyone. It doesn't have to be a therapist. Or email one of us.

Answer 5

Check out (http://www.reducingstress.net ) there is a lot of great content, information articles, expert advice and links on the subject there.

Answer 6

Simply quit drinking and consult a therapist
you will not get along alone
find sum support and get along
may god be with you

Answer 7

Hi,
1st of all i would like to say that whatever you told about yourself it is clear from this that you are badly depressed,its the highest degree of depression when one decides to kill oneself.you said you don't want to go to a therapist,look you need a psychytrist,now it doesn't mean that you are mad ,the symptoms that you told is called depression,& in this advance modern era,there is the treatment ,a psychytrist is the one who will advice you some medicine,the purpose of these medicine is to pull you out of this depressed condition,the medicine actually helps in maintaining the harmones of happiness & joy,when the feeling of loneliness & sorrow last for more then 4 weeks,it is anxiety & then it becomes more complex converted into depression,when one want to kill oneself feeling worthless,because of the worries surrounded him/her.so basically the harmones of happiness become too low.
you must go to a psychytrist,he/she will write some medicine to you use it regularly,don't leave in the mid,i can't understand why are you worrying to go to psychytrist,the duration of using medicine will be upto 3-6monthns & then you will be alright .look instead of having the feeling of killing yourself,try once & go.he will also do counselling to you.you will feel better.

Remember one thing which is the most important thing to do,be regular in your prayers,& ask from GOD directly
may be you committed some sins you are not the only one in this world ,ask from GOD to forgive,& if you hurt someones feelings say sorry to that person,think positiviely whatever that happens in life is by the will of ALLAH,there not even a single person who is not suffering from any pain,ask from GOD,& if you cannot get leave it at GOD ,may be HE has decide some more good for you.be contented of what you have,have a look at the people who don't have the blessings that you have like shelter,parents,good standard of living,good friends etc,AND WHICH ONE OF THE BLESSINGS OF GOD WILL YOU DENY.look & observe.

you seemed to be in habbit of drinking which means you don't want to face reallity it is of no use instead of spoiling yourself,leave it & go for healthy activities like reading books,use net ,help people & you will get joy that is inner & long lasting.
be good to everyone,take very good look at your friends because a man is known by the company he keeps.if your company is good even then you will feel better.

Remember life goes on,either you weep or you laugh,so why to weep & spend your life by crying over it,if there is missing in your life,let it be ,its the GOD'WILL ,can't you sacrifies it for sake of GOD,its reward will be given to you in the eternity.Thanks to GOD for whatever you have,don't take about depressed talks when you are with your friends or someone else.be optimistic not pessimist,if something is not coming your way may be its not good for you,think like that, do not think why i couldn't get this thing or that thing etc.read funky books & some with having good moral lessons in it.

i think it is enough now,leave bad habits,go to psychytrist,it will advice you some medicine that will pull you out of this depressed condition then start a new life & be happy for whatever you have,thank to GOD & ask from HIM,and
you will be alright even then thank to GOD & let us know & start helping other people specially like you ,it will give you eternal satisfaction.

And do remember me in your prayers,with best wishes.

BYE

Answer 8

if you wanna talk, I can listen! life is hard but its harder for those around you if you were to leave.
email me at [e-mail] if you want

Answer 9

Can you please Email me at [e-mail] so I can try to help?

Answer 10

TALK TO GOD